"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is getting a lot of women (men) worth it all?

PeasantPlayer

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Asking because.....isn't there so much more to life then just fitting in to get married or gaming chicks....why are we so obsessed with getting ***** or being impressionable to women? There is so much more to do then explore and in this short life, I think humans have to shoot for higher goals....people are content with being average and content, its down right sickening, forget women...do something you never did before, fight your fears, explore....learn....**** women they will always be there, if they don't like me for who I am right now....**** them and the same goes for women who are pursing men. Tired of this culture of finding the right one, settling down....all that tells me is that you are a boring person, discover yourself....make mistakes, be the better you.

Is all it all worth it? Marriage, gaming women (men), impressing people? Is that the best thing you can accomplish in life?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who gives a sh*t really? In however many weeks, months or years you're going to be dead and nothing will really matter. So do what brings you a slight bit of happiness... women.. or something else. Doesn't really matter.
 

Sino Zane

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Good point, sure.

"Why do you embody such a fervent need to be desired by women?" This is a fair question to ask anyone who spends a lot of time gaming easy, vapid women.
 

Teddy_Beer

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Eh...In my opinion, too much of something equals not enough of it.

Not enough women = frustration and masturbation

Too many women = heap of trouble

The essential thing is to act in ways that make you HAPPY!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PeasantPlayer said:
Asking because.....isn't there so much more to life then just fitting in to get married or gaming chicks....why are we so obsessed with getting ***** or being impressionable to women? There is so much more to do then explore and in this short life, I think humans have to shoot for higher goals....people are content with being average and content, its down right sickening, forget women...do something you never did before, fight your fears, explore....learn....**** women they will always be there, if they don't like me for who I am right now....**** them and the same goes for women who are pursing men. Tired of this culture of finding the right one, settling down....all that tells me is that you are a boring person, discover yourself....make mistakes, be the better you.

Is all it all worth it? Marriage, gaming women (men), impressing people? Is that the best thing you can accomplish in life?
I believe I heard this phrase here on SS when I first joined back in 06.

"Build the perfect man, and the perfect woman will come"

That might be good for you to chew on. The best thing you can accomplish in life is being the man you want to be. Then you won't have to game/chase women, they will chase you.

Wish I could remember who said that line, but I have repeated it to others over the years and it makes perfect sense.

As for impressing people, forget about it.. Just impress yourself.
 
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