"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is fear of you leaving a strong motivator for your woman giving you plenty sex?

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One of the responses from one of my earlier threads (about prostitution and "headaches") brought up an interesting meme - that the way to ensure that your woman gives you plenty of sex is for her to have fear of you leaving, with the idea that she will keep you very satisfied so that you wouldn't want to leave.

I remember a fling in which my woman was making me wait a while. She caught me answering the phone from another woman, and sure enough, she was ready for a nice evening of sex the next day. :yes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MatureDJ said:
One of the responses from one of my earlier threads (about prostitution and "headaches") brought up an interesting meme - that the way to ensure that your woman gives you plenty of sex is for her to have fear of you leaving, with the idea that she will keep you very satisfied so that you wouldn't want to leave.

I remember a fling in which my woman was making me wait a while. She caught me answering the phone from another woman, and sure enough, she was ready for a nice evening of sex the next day. :yes:
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I've had this happen myself.
In this case, when she felt I was about to throw my hands in the air, she turned up the heat.

Another woman who I didn't bed, but had been working for a while, I just friend'ed her before I slept with her.
She thanked me for being a "darling" and respecting her. I would bet money, next outing, even as friends, she'll come on strong!

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Dear DJ,
"that the way to ensure that your woman gives you plenty of sex is for her to have fear of you leaving" Pretty obvious really,she knows that in a situation where the Unattached Males only real need from her and her Sisters is Svexual,then if she wants someone around to sort out the Day to Day problems in her life,she just has to put out or do without.....This Story that we need and value them for some mysterious internal essence,is Something Mum told Dad to make him laugh.
 
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