"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is fear of you leaving a strong motivator for your woman giving you plenty sex?

MatureDJ

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One of the responses from one of my earlier threads (about prostitution and "headaches") brought up an interesting meme - that the way to ensure that your woman gives you plenty of sex is for her to have fear of you leaving, with the idea that she will keep you very satisfied so that you wouldn't want to leave.

I remember a fling in which my woman was making me wait a while. She caught me answering the phone from another woman, and sure enough, she was ready for a nice evening of sex the next day. :yes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MatureDJ said:
One of the responses from one of my earlier threads (about prostitution and "headaches") brought up an interesting meme - that the way to ensure that your woman gives you plenty of sex is for her to have fear of you leaving, with the idea that she will keep you very satisfied so that you wouldn't want to leave.

I remember a fling in which my woman was making me wait a while. She caught me answering the phone from another woman, and sure enough, she was ready for a nice evening of sex the next day. :yes:
I've had this happen myself.
In this case, when she felt I was about to throw my hands in the air, she turned up the heat.

Another woman who I didn't bed, but had been working for a while, I just friend'ed her before I slept with her.
She thanked me for being a "darling" and respecting her. I would bet money, next outing, even as friends, she'll come on strong!

SH
 

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Dear DJ,
"that the way to ensure that your woman gives you plenty of sex is for her to have fear of you leaving" Pretty obvious really,she knows that in a situation where the Unattached Males only real need from her and her Sisters is Svexual,then if she wants someone around to sort out the Day to Day problems in her life,she just has to put out or do without.....This Story that we need and value them for some mysterious internal essence,is Something Mum told Dad to make him laugh.
 
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