"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is Fb chat the same texting?

Locogooner

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like is it the same effect and will texting techniques apply for fb chat
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Blackmm

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Yes since both are realtime, although you know if the person is actually there for an immediate response on FB.
 

PDubb75

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I think FB chat can be even more dangerous than text. Since responses generally come a lot quicker, you give yourself more opportunities, in a shorter time span, to get caught up in the downfalls of texting. It's too easy to get too chatty when you have a full keyboard and responses in a matter of seconds.

I would make sure to keep it very brief on a FB convo. Plus, you don't want it to seem like you have nothing to do, so you are sitting on FB for an extended period of time.
 
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