Locogooner
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like is it the same effect and will texting techniques apply for fb chat
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is Fb chat the same texting?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think FB chat can be even more dangerous than text. Since responses generally come a lot quicker, you give yourself more opportunities, in a shorter time span, to get caught up in the downfalls of texting. It's too easy to get too chatty when you have a full keyboard and responses in a matter of seconds.
I would make sure to keep it very brief on a FB convo. Plus, you don't want it to seem like you have nothing to do, so you are sitting on FB for an extended period of time.
I would make sure to keep it very brief on a FB convo. Plus, you don't want it to seem like you have nothing to do, so you are sitting on FB for an extended period of time.