Locogooner
Don Juan
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like is it the same effect and will texting techniques apply for fb chat
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is Fb chat the same texting?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think FB chat can be even more dangerous than text. Since responses generally come a lot quicker, you give yourself more opportunities, in a shorter time span, to get caught up in the downfalls of texting. It's too easy to get too chatty when you have a full keyboard and responses in a matter of seconds.
I would make sure to keep it very brief on a FB convo. Plus, you don't want it to seem like you have nothing to do, so you are sitting on FB for an extended period of time.
I would make sure to keep it very brief on a FB convo. Plus, you don't want it to seem like you have nothing to do, so you are sitting on FB for an extended period of time.