"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is everybody a drug addict? wtf!

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I swear every time a meet a chic that is good looking she's either a pot head, cocain user, pill popper etc... I'm soo sick of it. I don't dont mind the ocasional joint but anything more than that and its a deal breaker. Maybe I should get out of bars and start going to church....:rolleyes: I certianly like to party and have fun but just stick with alchohol...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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st_99 said:
I swear every time a meet a chic that is good looking she's either a pot head, cocain user, pill popper etc... I'm soo sick of it. I don't dont mind the ocasional joint but anything more than that and its a deal breaker. Maybe I should get out of bars and start going to church....:rolleyes: I certianly like to party and have fun but just stick with alchohol...
Stop going to clubs/bars/parties to meet women.

P.S. I wrote my response before even reading your entire post and funny that it seems spot on. Just like when people ask if "all women are cheaters/slvts" I'll do the same thing. Because 99% of the time that is where they are meeting most of these girls and of course they're going to find the same type of girl in each of these places. Like flies on sh1t. church can go either way...rest assured that there are lots of hypocrites who go to church and do really nasty things outside of it.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Stop going to clubs/bars/parties to meet women.

P.S. I wrote my response before even reading your entire post and funny that it seems spot on. Just like when people ask if "all women are cheaters/slvts" I'll do the same thing. Because 99% of the time that is where they are meeting most of these girls and of course they're going to find the same type of girl in each of these places. Like flies on sh1t. church can go either way...rest assured that there are lots of hypocrites who go to church and do really nasty things outside of it.
I agree. hypocracy can be found mostly in church gatherings. I know of a pastor who clubs on saturday night and preaches on sunday morning at church.
 
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Whats wrong with doing a little E every once in a while, or pot. Easiest way to connect with a girl is to roll with her (do E) cuz for some reason you are 100x as smooth as you normally are, and she is 100x hornier than she normally would be. Plus sex last a good 5-6 hrs.
 

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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
Whats wrong with doing a little E every once in a while, or pot. Easiest way to connect with a girl is to roll with her (do E) cuz for some reason you are 100x as smooth as you normally are, and she is 100x hornier than she normally would be. Plus sex last a good 5-6 hrs.
Do you get to have sex with the gaping holes in her brain?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where do you live?

It's something I've rarely run into, except for marijuana, which seems to be really popular. I've yet to run into someone who's an honest-to-goodness druggie.

It's possible, though, that when around me people may simply not tell me. I probably give off the vibe that it's something I don't dabble in, and it's true. I've never used illegal drugs, and don't like to hear about it. Perhaps I don't hear about it because people are afraid that I'd rat them out.
 

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amoka said:
I agree. hypocracy can be found mostly in church gatherings. I know of a pastor who clubs on saturday night and preaches on sunday morning at church.
Most of the stuff churches preach about isn't even in the bible or anything.

They just made up extra rules to govern morality that even jesus didn't get a sh1t about.
 

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there is nothing wrong with drugs unless you abuse the system.
taking drugs and experimenting with them is fine, if you only do it on the occasion.
personally i think marijuana isn't dangerous if its not abused.
people who take drugs daily have some issues, but there is nothing wrong with having e with a chick. some people just like to get out of their usual mindset once in a while.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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