"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is everybody a drug addict? wtf!

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I swear every time a meet a chic that is good looking she's either a pot head, cocain user, pill popper etc... I'm soo sick of it. I don't dont mind the ocasional joint but anything more than that and its a deal breaker. Maybe I should get out of bars and start going to church....:rolleyes: I certianly like to party and have fun but just stick with alchohol...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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st_99 said:
I swear every time a meet a chic that is good looking she's either a pot head, cocain user, pill popper etc... I'm soo sick of it. I don't dont mind the ocasional joint but anything more than that and its a deal breaker. Maybe I should get out of bars and start going to church....:rolleyes: I certianly like to party and have fun but just stick with alchohol...
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Stop going to clubs/bars/parties to meet women.

P.S. I wrote my response before even reading your entire post and funny that it seems spot on. Just like when people ask if "all women are cheaters/slvts" I'll do the same thing. Because 99% of the time that is where they are meeting most of these girls and of course they're going to find the same type of girl in each of these places. Like flies on sh1t. church can go either way...rest assured that there are lots of hypocrites who go to church and do really nasty things outside of it.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Stop going to clubs/bars/parties to meet women.

P.S. I wrote my response before even reading your entire post and funny that it seems spot on. Just like when people ask if "all women are cheaters/slvts" I'll do the same thing. Because 99% of the time that is where they are meeting most of these girls and of course they're going to find the same type of girl in each of these places. Like flies on sh1t. church can go either way...rest assured that there are lots of hypocrites who go to church and do really nasty things outside of it.
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I agree. hypocracy can be found mostly in church gatherings. I know of a pastor who clubs on saturday night and preaches on sunday morning at church.
 
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Whats wrong with doing a little E every once in a while, or pot. Easiest way to connect with a girl is to roll with her (do E) cuz for some reason you are 100x as smooth as you normally are, and she is 100x hornier than she normally would be. Plus sex last a good 5-6 hrs.
 
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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
Whats wrong with doing a little E every once in a while, or pot. Easiest way to connect with a girl is to roll with her (do E) cuz for some reason you are 100x as smooth as you normally are, and she is 100x hornier than she normally would be. Plus sex last a good 5-6 hrs.
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Do you get to have sex with the gaping holes in her brain?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where do you live?

It's something I've rarely run into, except for marijuana, which seems to be really popular. I've yet to run into someone who's an honest-to-goodness druggie.

It's possible, though, that when around me people may simply not tell me. I probably give off the vibe that it's something I don't dabble in, and it's true. I've never used illegal drugs, and don't like to hear about it. Perhaps I don't hear about it because people are afraid that I'd rat them out.
 
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amoka said:
I agree. hypocracy can be found mostly in church gatherings. I know of a pastor who clubs on saturday night and preaches on sunday morning at church.
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Most of the stuff churches preach about isn't even in the bible or anything.

They just made up extra rules to govern morality that even jesus didn't get a sh1t about.
 
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there is nothing wrong with drugs unless you abuse the system.
taking drugs and experimenting with them is fine, if you only do it on the occasion.
personally i think marijuana isn't dangerous if its not abused.
people who take drugs daily have some issues, but there is nothing wrong with having e with a chick. some people just like to get out of their usual mindset once in a while.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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