"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is Doc Love worth the money?

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Hellow fellow DJs from all over the world!

After my recent (second) broke up with my ex-gf, I decided that I DO HAVE TO CHANGE, NOW. No more AFC for me!

Searching for informations, I found Doc Love. (yes, he is a lot like Anti-Dump, hehe. And he has a pick-up too! :D)

Is his material worth the cash?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Search the forum for "system" and "doc love." There's countless threads about this. Most of his detractors never actually purchased his book and believe that all of his information can be found in his articles, as if he would give the good stuff away for free (cheap b@stards).

Anyway, what worked for me (at least a few years ago) was a combination of Doc's System and David d'Angelo's Double Your Dating.
 

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I have the Double Your Dating ebook.

What I find strange is that some of David DeAngelo tips are told to be AFC on SoSuave. I just get confused... :p
 

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Originally posted by djbr
I have the Double Your Dating ebook.

What I find strange is that some of David DeAngelo tips are told to be AFC on SoSuave. I just get confused... :p
Like what specifically? It could just be confusion. Many guys in the forum have the same problem because they feel that being a DJ is very cut and dry while actually a good DJ is extremely dynamic.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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He just "bend over" more.

He accepts emails, for example.

He puts up with games. In fact, he says many things about "passing" them. Here many people say things like "if they start to game, tell her to jack off".

Maybe it's me over-interpreting (HAHA). :D

I just get tired and tired of reading. I NEED TO DO SOMETHING! :p

(oh lazy people... oh me.)
 

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Originally posted by djbr
He just "bend over" more.

He accepts emails, for example.

He puts up with games. In fact, he says many things about "passing" them. Here many people say things like "if they start to game, tell her to jack off".

Maybe it's me over-interpreting (HAHA). :D

I just get tired and tired of reading. I NEED TO DO SOMETHING! :p

(oh lazy people... oh me.)
You should understand that most of the people in the forum are still pissed off from past experiences. They haven't come to closure with them and tend to 'react' based on their own personal emotions and not by what actually works.

Here are some examples of things that work for me that most aspiring DJs would denounce.

  1. I successfully sarge on-line.
  2. I send emails.
  3. I sarge women in clubs
  4. I don't feel that getting a telephone number right off the bat is that important nor necessary.
  5. I don't feel that one is 'rejected' just because they didn't connect with a woman.
  6. I feel that social proof is overrated.
  7. I succeed without using '****y/funny." I use confident/funny.
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    You hit upon what you really need to do, get out and actually find out what works for you. To be successful as a DJ you need to create your own persona, your own DJ identity. It can have root in the ideas and methods prescribed by this board but it upon you to create what you would like to project upon the world.
 
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