"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is DJing for everyone?

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My dad was a DJ. He banged a good share. My cousin (an ugly ****er) has ****ed so many chicks. Sounds like I have the genes, right? WRONG.

I'm so ****ing lost. I think I have a psychological disorder sometimes. For instance, this freshman girl that went to my middle school (I'm a Junior), clearly likes me. Or liked me. I knew it. She knew it. I liked her back. I see her every day after E period. She walks one way, and I walk the opposite way. We glance eyes at each other. You know what I've said to her? I stopped in front of her and said "Hey, did you go to my middle school", she walked around me not knowing I was talking to her till she walked past me and turned around saying "Yeah..." in that girly I have a crush on you voice. This was two weeks ago. She's had a crush on me since about December. I've probably blown it, because she doesn't look at me like she use to. I've told all my friends to ****ing egg me to do it. My friend keeps pushing me in front of her. Do I do it? No.



This is one only one instance of it. I've done this plenty of times. WTF can't I approach? I seriously think its a psychological thing. I know when I was a little kid I use to cry if my parents made me tell the waiter what I wanted to eat. I eventually outgrew that, but I'm still stuck in my shell. I've read the DJ Bible, read the Gunwitch method, read the Pook stuff, read the "for those who can't approach". I'm just missing the girls department in my brain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds like you got some low confidence and self esteem. Find things that make you feel good about yourself. Work on just talking to girls. Don't try to talk to the hottest ones. I'm no Don Juan myself but i can say im no longer intimidated by pretty girls and this is coming from a a person that has had to fight anxiety and shyness his whole life. Quit thinking so much and just be yourself. Thats all anyone can ask for.
 
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Watch American Pie:The Naked Mile. It's OK to not be a DJ as long as you find true love...
 
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chaddycakes21 said:
Sounds like you got some low confidence and self esteem. Find things that make you feel good about yourself. Work on just talking to girls. Don't try to talk to the hottest ones. I'm no Don Juan myself but i can say im no longer intimidated by pretty girls and this is coming from a a person that has had to fight anxiety and shyness his whole life. Quit thinking so much and just be yourself. Thats all anyone can ask for.
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I agree. It sounds kind of mean, but start low and work your way up. Talk to the less attractive girls, or ones you've known for a while, or hell just start talking to your friend's girlfriends (not too much or your likely to get your arse kicked lol), every little bit will help you gain valuble experiance and more importantly, confidence.

I have problems too, but the best advice I can give, is to just go for it. Just try to reach a mental point where you don't care about rejection and just go for it. It sounds simple, but to someone like you or me, it's not easy.
But once you do it, you'll feel alot better
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Read Weapons of mass seduction, the 8 gates to overcome social phobias, that should help a lot :D!
 
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Buick said:
I agree. It sounds kind of mean, but start low and work your way up. Talk to the less attractive girls, or ones you've known for a while, or hell just start talking to your friend's girlfriends (not too much or your likely to get your arse kicked lol), every little bit will help you gain valuble experiance and more importantly, confidence.

I have problems too, but the best advice I can give, is to just go for it. Just try to reach a mental point where you don't care about rejection and just go for it. It sounds simple, but to someone like you or me, it's not easy.
But once you do it, you'll feel alot better
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I can talk to ok looking girls. But take today for example, I sit next to this really hot girl and for whatever reason, she hates me. Or at least always gives me an attitude, so I don't talk to her. Anyway, I sneezed, and it turns out I had a dry booger on my shirt. My friend later pointed it out, and said it so loud everyone could hear it. I was so embarrassed. I ended up sitting next to the girl during mass (I go to catholic school), and she giggled with her friend about not wanting to touch my hand. :( **** like that always just shoots my confidence. I'm usually a confident person, or at least I put on a confident look, but stuff like that is what kills me about high school. There's always something just to shoot your confidence.
 
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