"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is Cuffing season real or bull****

Trainwreck

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Pretty much the warm weather ends and the holidays start arrive. Girls tend to drop their picky hypergamy summer ways and go for a monogamous relationship to find a partner to deal with the holidays and the cold weather. Honestly, all of my easy lays have been in the fall thru spring. However, school is out during the summer and that's when most people are at home. What are yall's thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes dating is seasonal. The best times are early-mid spring and during the fall. Girls are sensitive about having a partner during the holiday season to attend social gatherings which increases their desire to find a partner in the fall.

Animals do more mating during certain times of the year as well.

Humans are no different. There was a study done that showed most babies are born in August and September. That means they are conceived in November/December. Fall runs from Sept 22-Dec 21. Lots of people having sechs in the Fall. For whatever reason there is a strong desire in humans to mate in the fall.
 
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It was a cuffing incident that happened to me that caused the cognitive dissonance which ended me up in the manosphere proper.

Women can be almost sociopathic in their need not to be alone on Christmas, and to keep guys for that purpose.
A girl I started dating in October of last year even mentioned "cuffing" season as to why we were together. lol. I didn't know if she was joking at the time, but come January I knew what our relationship was about. During those months, she requested that I go to every major social function she had from Oct-Dec which included her daughters wedding, Thanksgiving & Christmas with her family, and New Years. Her interest started to drop severely right after New Years.

Her request for me to attend Thanksgiving and Christmas at her family's was weird to me. I didn't think our relationship was ready for that kind of commitment. So her desire to have me attend made me feel like she was more into me than I thought. And this was where I went wrong. Her request for me to attend her family gatherings was all about her looking good in front of her family because they wanted her to be with a guy. Women are always concerned with how they are perceived by others.

FYI, I never did attend.
 

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I agree

Fall people are seeking to have LTR to do the entire social events /christmas/ new year

Have you noticed... January is also know as break up month?

Than we Hunt for a partner in time for st-valentine

Come Summer... we seek flings (remember the High school days for discussing Summer flings) cause we feel more free/vacation etc...

Baby are also mostly made in Fall or February.

So there is alot of season indeed... it goes with the seasons/weather but also our schedule.

Who wants to be chasing girls when you working all the time or studying? Than in Summer all his quieter, you have more free time etc...

So Yep, it's normal and it does exist... always exceptions.. but there is indeed à trend
 

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Celebrate the blessing of a plate entering your life and then ultimately the leaving.

This junction is at the point where you welcome the next plate ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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