"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is confused good?

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Long story short-I went out with a chick. We broke up, I started being a dj ()mystery, aloofness, etc) and she wanted me back. We have gotten back but never talked about it, It just happened. We have hooked up a few times, she said I love you (which is a big deal for either of us to say) and she is worried of what my friends think of her. So we are pretty much back together, but never out and said it. I found out she talked to a mutual friend last night and asked her if I had said anything about the two of us, because she was confused.

Now I know she is really into me, and things are going very well. I just wanted to know, is being confused a good thing? does that mean she can't read me, and will obsess about it, and in the end wind up even more into me? Or is confused a bad thing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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doesnt sound like u need any help from us ... just keep doin what ur doin =) :up:
 
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thanks for the confidence boost.

Come on guys, I help all you out when I can. Anyone got any advice?
 
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confusion keeps the realationship intresting if she knows everything she will get bored.

Confusion is great it will keep her guessing and coming back to you trying to figure you out like a puzzle.

HAVE U EVER SEEN A GIRL WITH A RUBIX CUBE??? she wont give up till its done. So never let the confusion run out or the realationship will gets boring.

This is the same as Mysterious and we all know how good that works.
 
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Good advice. Confusing = mystery. You answered your own question. Keeps the relationship from getting boring.

Next time a girl tells me she's bored I want to throw her a rubix cube now, just to see if you're right lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Confused is always good. It can be frustrating at times but always remember the more they resist what they really want the more attached they will get in the end.

Resistance is futile when faced with a true seducer.

It seems like alot of the women I meet the last couple of years resist me more BECAUSE they are attracted to me in turn the effort they put into that resistance causes them to be even more attracted.

It's a viscous cycle that they can not escape.
 
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