"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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is confused good?

Big Eee Zee

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Long story short-I went out with a chick. We broke up, I started being a dj ()mystery, aloofness, etc) and she wanted me back. We have gotten back but never talked about it, It just happened. We have hooked up a few times, she said I love you (which is a big deal for either of us to say) and she is worried of what my friends think of her. So we are pretty much back together, but never out and said it. I found out she talked to a mutual friend last night and asked her if I had said anything about the two of us, because she was confused.

Now I know she is really into me, and things are going very well. I just wanted to know, is being confused a good thing? does that mean she can't read me, and will obsess about it, and in the end wind up even more into me? Or is confused a bad thing?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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doesnt sound like u need any help from us ... just keep doin what ur doin =) :up:
 

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thanks for the confidence boost.

Come on guys, I help all you out when I can. Anyone got any advice?
 

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confusion keeps the realationship intresting if she knows everything she will get bored.

Confusion is great it will keep her guessing and coming back to you trying to figure you out like a puzzle.

HAVE U EVER SEEN A GIRL WITH A RUBIX CUBE??? she wont give up till its done. So never let the confusion run out or the realationship will gets boring.

This is the same as Mysterious and we all know how good that works.
 

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Good advice. Confusing = mystery. You answered your own question. Keeps the relationship from getting boring.

Next time a girl tells me she's bored I want to throw her a rubix cube now, just to see if you're right lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Confused is always good. It can be frustrating at times but always remember the more they resist what they really want the more attached they will get in the end.

Resistance is futile when faced with a true seducer.

It seems like alot of the women I meet the last couple of years resist me more BECAUSE they are attracted to me in turn the effort they put into that resistance causes them to be even more attracted.

It's a viscous cycle that they can not escape.
 
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