Is cold approaching chicks when they're working(cashier, customer service, waitress,etc) useless as they're obligated to be nice and turn down everyon

[GeeMale]

This is a common thing chicks legit complain about. Guys who hit on them all the time putting them in an even more uncomfortable situation.

Does it have to do with if she is legit interested or not or do they just turn down anyone even if they're Don Juan type described from book of pook?

Me personally, my experience leading to anything is zero with chicks in these situations. And I do remember years ago before these sites they'd give me hints they're no interested and I'd be that guy who'd make them uncomfortable (not harassing just clueless).

Should I not give a **** and just use my gut in these situations from what I learned from book of pook and this site?

 

[escaleraroyal]

I don't think it's useless.

 

[Medina]

This is a common thing chicks legit complain about.

No they don't

That is total feminist lies

Most women love flirting in the workplace

She will tell all her friends about it

Worst case scenario is a cold shoulder (no interest)

That's about it

 

[corrector]

This is a common thing chicks legit complain about. Guys who hit on them all the time putting them in an even more uncomfortable situation.

That means guys that she is not interested in.

Does it have to do with if she is legit interested or not or do they just turn down anyone even if they're Don Juan type described from book of pook?

They don't turn down Chads, they throw themselves on to them.

Me personally, my experience leading to anything is zero with chicks in these situations.

That means you are average looking. Would you say you are nearcel? Have trouble finding girls but get lucky once in a while?

And I do remember years ago before these sites they'd give me hints they're no interested and I'd be that guy who'd make them uncomfortable (not harassing just clueless).

Should I not give a **** and just use my gut in these situations from what I learned from book of pook and this site?

You should own up to the fact you are not a Celebrity, a Chad/Chadlite or that you are not popular with women and if so, then interactions, (except in rare cases when it's the right moment and the stars are aligning) are generally going to suck most of the time. It's the ones that do work out at the end of the day that count. You are limiting yourself if you exclude cashiers. Some people end up marrying someone they meet as a cashier or worked as a secretary somewhere.

 

[jaymbrs]

I've gotten a respectable amount of lays hitting on waitresses and bartenders. It's the perfect scenario if you ask me. Yes, she needs to be polite to you but but as a former server, diners aren't particularly nice in return. Waitresses and bartenders appreciate that and you're able to build a sense of comfort.

 

[malz1]

If a working girl likes you, then you'll know it.

 

[GeeMale]

That means guys that she is not interested in.



They don't turn down Chads, they throw themselves on to them.



That means you are average looking. Would you say you are nearcel? Have trouble finding girls but get lucky once in a while?



You should own up to the fact you are not a Celebrity, a Chad/Chadlite or that you are not popular with women and if so, then interactions, (except in rare cases when it's the right moment and the stars are aligning) are generally going to suck most of the time. It's the ones that do work out at the end of the day that count. You are limiting yourself if you exclude cashiers. Some people end up marrying someone they meet as a cashier or worked as a secretary somewhere.

Well what I meant by no success it's more about not asking many of them out I gets sign of interest a lot. I've got dates before but nothing compared to the ones that I could've had. I'm going to go with my gut and forget all the Bs. I knew it was what y'all are writing the whole time, I was confused why guys complain of this and some chicks....I was watching some YouTube vids about other random stuff so I had to post it here.