"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is being "bigger" down there truly better?

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Size doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Money doesn't matter. Fame doesn't matter.

All that matters is what you'll find in my new e-book for just $79.99!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Think about it this way.. Would you date a really awesome girl with smaller boobs, or would you date a really stupid boring girl with double D's?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Listen, girls have different size gear too. Too bad you find the one with the big concert hall, when you only got a tiny banana, but there are women out there with tiny cupboards too, and if you have something too big for them, they'll literally get hurt leave. So stop worrying and try out the girls you find on your path. Sooner or later you'll find one that fits :D
 

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This is a topic that I do know about. Trust me. Size DOES matter. Its like anything else. If you are a guy like me, booty and tits matter. Girls are sexual just like us. We have the advantage of measuring their goods without them having to take their clothes off of course. When a girl sees your size, she will notice. I have been with plenty of girls who have told me that their last guy was small. It was funny cuz one of those guys was 6'3 tall. They were talking about his **** of course.

Here is some good news though. Length does not matter as much as THICKNESS. You still have to be average in length but thickness is what turns girls on the most. It makes them wanna (as one girl put it) "lick it" like an ice cream. So if you are not 10 inches long (or whaterver other exaggerations guys claim) don't worry about it as long as your thing is thick.

Bingo if your 10 inches long but skinny sloang its not gonna be the same as 6 inches with 5 INCH girth

If guys think size doesn't matter your fooling yourself and being delusional
 

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Yes yes, that's what it is. It has nothing to do with the fact that he just got laid for the first time at age 24.
That's cute. I thought about you the whole time though, you sexy beast. :flowers:


Coming back to this place after a long leave of absence just made me realize what ridiculous sh*t is going on on here. All I did here was responding in a retarded way to a retarded topic.
 

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NOT ALWAYS. There is such a thing as being too big and it hurts alot.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No it doesn't matter unless it's ridiculously small or ridiculously big. But even then you can still have a great night without it being an issue. Being good in bed has nothing to do with your **** size if you're average, over average or under average (within reason). I personally haven't had sex with an over-average size and I've had the time of my life in the past few years.
Actually that's a bit misleading, I've had the time of my life when I've been in bed, I'm probably not experienced enough to answer accurately, but in my experience so far this is my opinion.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
No it doesn't matter unless it's ridiculously small or ridiculously big. But even then you can still have a great night without it being an issue. Being good in bed has nothing to do with your **** size if you're average, over average or under average (within reason). I personally haven't had sex with an over-average size and I've had the time of my life in the past few years.
Actually that's a bit misleading, I've had the time of my life when I've been in bed, I'm probably not experienced enough to answer accurately, but in my experience so far this is my opinion.

That's like saying there ain't no difference between a hotdog and a steak, but you've never eaten steak. How can you say that size doesn't matter when you've never tried the different sizes?
 

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I wish I was a few inches smaller. It can be frustrating if you wear fitted jeans. Only so much space in them. It gets worse if you decide to sit down on certain chairs. Certain chairs tend to cause me to grow just a bit down there. ANY guy here who has a lot of mass would agree with me!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lol, what the hell are people talking about when they say "It's not how big it is, it's how you use it", or "It's technique that counts". Like wtf does that even mean? What other techniques are there in sex than taking your penis and sliding it in and out? I mean there are different positions but the only real variations in fvcking is maybe going a little faster or slower, or maybe a little circular movement. Other than that wtf are girls talking about?

I mean in my experience I think girls equate how good you are in bed to how long you can last and how hard you can pound away without cumming. Maybe put in a little spanking in there or a little hair pulling. It's really not at all that complicated. If you're 4 inches and can pound like a jack hammer than you're probably good. If you're 8 inches and jizz in 30 seconds than you're screwed.
 
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Voice said:
Lol, what the hell are people talking about when they say "It's not how big it is, it's how you use it", or "It's technique that counts". Like wtf does that even mean? What other techniques are there in sex than taking your penis and sliding it in and out? I mean there are different positions but the only real variations in fvcking is maybe going a little faster or slower, or maybe a little circular movement. Other than that wtf are girls talking about?

I mean in my experience I think girls equate how good you are in bed to how long you can last and how hard you can pound away without cumming. Maybe put in a little spanking in there or a little hair pulling. It's really not at all that complicated. If you're 4 inches and can pound like a jack hammer than you're probably good. If you're 8 inches and jizz in 30 seconds than you're screwed.
There is quite a lot of difference actually in technique. One of the most important things is sliding it in and up, not just in for example. You never noticed how girls will usually *** easily if they're on top and lean back?

You're right about lasting longer too. This can sort of be trained as well. Truth be told with a new girl I'm often unable to *** at all, which isn't that great either.
 

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SharinganUser said:
That's like saying there ain't no difference between a hotdog and a steak, but you've never eaten steak. How can you say that size doesn't matter when you've never tried the different sizes?
Because the majority of guys only worry if it's too small as they worry it'll hinder their performance in bed, and I was just saying that in my past experience it hasn't been a problem. I'm not saying there's no difference, I'm just saying you can still have a good time. You can only work with what you've got but there's always a way to make that work.

Also euphemisms aside, steak every time!
 

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Voice said:
Lol, what the hell are people talking about when they say "It's not how big it is, it's how you use it", or "It's technique that counts". Like wtf does that even mean? What other techniques are there in sex than taking your penis and sliding it in and out? I mean there are different positions but the only real variations in fvcking is maybe going a little faster or slower, or maybe a little circular movement. Other than that wtf are girls talking about?
See it's descriptions like this that make me wonder how many people really enjoy sex. Particularly the word "technique"; makes it sound mechanical, sex should never be 'mechanical'.
 

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LOl curious girl- love that link in your signature.

wasn't that when bbc 3 first came out?
Yeah! Man I remember when there was just 5 channels, and channel 5 was always really bad quality picture.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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