"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is being "bigger" down there truly better?

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Size doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Money doesn't matter. Fame doesn't matter.

All that matters is what you'll find in my new e-book for just $79.99!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Think about it this way.. Would you date a really awesome girl with smaller boobs, or would you date a really stupid boring girl with double D's?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Listen, girls have different size gear too. Too bad you find the one with the big concert hall, when you only got a tiny banana, but there are women out there with tiny cupboards too, and if you have something too big for them, they'll literally get hurt leave. So stop worrying and try out the girls you find on your path. Sooner or later you'll find one that fits :D
 

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This is a topic that I do know about. Trust me. Size DOES matter. Its like anything else. If you are a guy like me, booty and tits matter. Girls are sexual just like us. We have the advantage of measuring their goods without them having to take their clothes off of course. When a girl sees your size, she will notice. I have been with plenty of girls who have told me that their last guy was small. It was funny cuz one of those guys was 6'3 tall. They were talking about his **** of course.

Here is some good news though. Length does not matter as much as THICKNESS. You still have to be average in length but thickness is what turns girls on the most. It makes them wanna (as one girl put it) "lick it" like an ice cream. So if you are not 10 inches long (or whaterver other exaggerations guys claim) don't worry about it as long as your thing is thick.

Bingo if your 10 inches long but skinny sloang its not gonna be the same as 6 inches with 5 INCH girth

If guys think size doesn't matter your fooling yourself and being delusional
 

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Yes yes, that's what it is. It has nothing to do with the fact that he just got laid for the first time at age 24.
That's cute. I thought about you the whole time though, you sexy beast. :flowers:


Coming back to this place after a long leave of absence just made me realize what ridiculous sh*t is going on on here. All I did here was responding in a retarded way to a retarded topic.
 

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NOT ALWAYS. There is such a thing as being too big and it hurts alot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No it doesn't matter unless it's ridiculously small or ridiculously big. But even then you can still have a great night without it being an issue. Being good in bed has nothing to do with your **** size if you're average, over average or under average (within reason). I personally haven't had sex with an over-average size and I've had the time of my life in the past few years.
Actually that's a bit misleading, I've had the time of my life when I've been in bed, I'm probably not experienced enough to answer accurately, but in my experience so far this is my opinion.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
No it doesn't matter unless it's ridiculously small or ridiculously big. But even then you can still have a great night without it being an issue. Being good in bed has nothing to do with your **** size if you're average, over average or under average (within reason). I personally haven't had sex with an over-average size and I've had the time of my life in the past few years.
Actually that's a bit misleading, I've had the time of my life when I've been in bed, I'm probably not experienced enough to answer accurately, but in my experience so far this is my opinion.

That's like saying there ain't no difference between a hotdog and a steak, but you've never eaten steak. How can you say that size doesn't matter when you've never tried the different sizes?
 

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I wish I was a few inches smaller. It can be frustrating if you wear fitted jeans. Only so much space in them. It gets worse if you decide to sit down on certain chairs. Certain chairs tend to cause me to grow just a bit down there. ANY guy here who has a lot of mass would agree with me!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lol, what the hell are people talking about when they say "It's not how big it is, it's how you use it", or "It's technique that counts". Like wtf does that even mean? What other techniques are there in sex than taking your penis and sliding it in and out? I mean there are different positions but the only real variations in fvcking is maybe going a little faster or slower, or maybe a little circular movement. Other than that wtf are girls talking about?

I mean in my experience I think girls equate how good you are in bed to how long you can last and how hard you can pound away without cumming. Maybe put in a little spanking in there or a little hair pulling. It's really not at all that complicated. If you're 4 inches and can pound like a jack hammer than you're probably good. If you're 8 inches and jizz in 30 seconds than you're screwed.
 
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Voice said:
Lol, what the hell are people talking about when they say "It's not how big it is, it's how you use it", or "It's technique that counts". Like wtf does that even mean? What other techniques are there in sex than taking your penis and sliding it in and out? I mean there are different positions but the only real variations in fvcking is maybe going a little faster or slower, or maybe a little circular movement. Other than that wtf are girls talking about?

I mean in my experience I think girls equate how good you are in bed to how long you can last and how hard you can pound away without cumming. Maybe put in a little spanking in there or a little hair pulling. It's really not at all that complicated. If you're 4 inches and can pound like a jack hammer than you're probably good. If you're 8 inches and jizz in 30 seconds than you're screwed.
There is quite a lot of difference actually in technique. One of the most important things is sliding it in and up, not just in for example. You never noticed how girls will usually *** easily if they're on top and lean back?

You're right about lasting longer too. This can sort of be trained as well. Truth be told with a new girl I'm often unable to *** at all, which isn't that great either.
 

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SharinganUser said:
That's like saying there ain't no difference between a hotdog and a steak, but you've never eaten steak. How can you say that size doesn't matter when you've never tried the different sizes?
Because the majority of guys only worry if it's too small as they worry it'll hinder their performance in bed, and I was just saying that in my past experience it hasn't been a problem. I'm not saying there's no difference, I'm just saying you can still have a good time. You can only work with what you've got but there's always a way to make that work.

Also euphemisms aside, steak every time!
 

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Voice said:
Lol, what the hell are people talking about when they say "It's not how big it is, it's how you use it", or "It's technique that counts". Like wtf does that even mean? What other techniques are there in sex than taking your penis and sliding it in and out? I mean there are different positions but the only real variations in fvcking is maybe going a little faster or slower, or maybe a little circular movement. Other than that wtf are girls talking about?
See it's descriptions like this that make me wonder how many people really enjoy sex. Particularly the word "technique"; makes it sound mechanical, sex should never be 'mechanical'.
 

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LOl curious girl- love that link in your signature.

wasn't that when bbc 3 first came out?
Yeah! Man I remember when there was just 5 channels, and channel 5 was always really bad quality picture.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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