Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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is being a virgin at 18 a big turnoff for girls

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scrumtulescence

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At 18, no. I don't know when the hell it came to be considered the norm to lose your virginity well before 18, but anyone who thinks odd of your for being an 18 year old virgin is a little touched in the head if you ask me. Some girls (yes, attractive girls) do in fact find it to be a turn-on, as long as you're an otherwise attractive person.
 

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Originally posted by metrhoe
arr crap i left pc going and my brother saw the thread, how embarresing
Don't be embarassed of who you are man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by metrhoe
arr crap i left pc going and my brother saw the thread, how embarresing

omg that is so damn hilarious!!!! lolz

if your so worried about your performance i suggest you do a couple of things when your about to GET SUM!!!

1.watch some porno watch what they do study the females parts study the oral, hands down it will make you a better lover just try doing what they do....That's what helped me the 1st time she thought i was lying about being a virgin the 1st time but the truth is i just did what i saw in so many porno's

2.the climax if you ever saw "Something about mary" the guy talks about choaking the chicken with his other friend before the date to get rid of the baby batter....you'll injaculate again or maybe not. The penis will get harder and it will make it harder to nut scince you have to "reload"

3.masterbation the more you masterbate waiting till ejaculation and holding back will condition you to control yourself and you can damn near *** when you feel like it last time i had sex because i tried this it gave me an extra 30 min to sex before i came (YAY)

4.standing up i don't really know the deal with this but when i stand up while sex it makes it even longer for me to ejaculate....now if i felt like it i could but it clearly takes longer when you have tension on your leg muscles then that if you where getting some sitting down an relaxed.


I'm no expert but this is all i know due to my experience...i don't get as much as i should be getting that's why i'm here!!!
 

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Who cares, this is a failed thread. If he left his computer on, then he is an idiot and should learn from that. If he typed that out himself, well he's still an idiot and now a troll.

Happy now?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LuisGarcia10

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So long as there isn't an obvious reason as to why you're a virgin.

Most girls will see it as a sign of encouragement that you've slept with a small amount, and if you're an otherwise attractive person she'll surely feel that you could have slept with a lot more if you wanted to and the fact that you're interested in her means she's special.

I just recently had a conversation in the pub with a few freinds from work, one of whom is a girl and after a few drinks the conversation of sex turned up.

This girl was horrified that one of my mates who's 19 had slept with 14 girls where as she gave me quite a lot of respect for only sleeping with 4 (I'm 18). This girl is very hot by the way, easily an 8, probably 9. I have no intention of sleeping with her for several reasons and am very happy with be just freinds with her, not in an AFC way that I secretely lust for something more but just because I think she's a nice girl but not really my type for a relationship and I don't think I'm her's either.

I will mention one thing though, she has just dumped her boyfreind to be with my mate that's slept with 14 girls although I think she sees the 14 girls thing as a hinderance, because he's an otherwise really nice guy(not AFC but just a genuinely good bloke but he won't take any ****).

But seriously, any girl that won't take you because you've not had sex isn't worth having sex with anyway, if you're that worried about it just don't tell them.
 

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Her opinion on the matter just lost all its credibility.

lol so true

if anything I think deep down inside she likes that he was able to bag so many chicks at only 19
 
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