"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
is being a virgin at 18 a big turnoff for girls
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
omg that is so damn hilarious!!!! lolz
if your so worried about your performance i suggest you do a couple of things when your about to GET SUM!!!
1.watch some porno watch what they do study the females parts study the oral, hands down it will make you a better lover just try doing what they do....That's what helped me the 1st time she thought i was lying about being a virgin the 1st time but the truth is i just did what i saw in so many porno's
2.the climax if you ever saw "Something about mary" the guy talks about choaking the chicken with his other friend before the date to get rid of the baby batter....you'll injaculate again or maybe not. The penis will get harder and it will make it harder to nut scince you have to "reload"
3.masterbation the more you masterbate waiting till ejaculation and holding back will condition you to control yourself and you can damn near *** when you feel like it last time i had sex because i tried this it gave me an extra 30 min to sex before i came (YAY)
4.standing up i don't really know the deal with this but when i stand up while sex it makes it even longer for me to ejaculate....now if i felt like it i could but it clearly takes longer when you have tension on your leg muscles then that if you where getting some sitting down an relaxed.
I'm no expert but this is all i know due to my experience...i don't get as much as i should be getting that's why i'm here!!!
Badmannaz
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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LuisGarcia10
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Most girls will see it as a sign of encouragement that you've slept with a small amount, and if you're an otherwise attractive person she'll surely feel that you could have slept with a lot more if you wanted to and the fact that you're interested in her means she's special.
I just recently had a conversation in the pub with a few freinds from work, one of whom is a girl and after a few drinks the conversation of sex turned up.
This girl was horrified that one of my mates who's 19 had slept with 14 girls where as she gave me quite a lot of respect for only sleeping with 4 (I'm 18). This girl is very hot by the way, easily an 8, probably 9. I have no intention of sleeping with her for several reasons and am very happy with be just freinds with her, not in an AFC way that I secretely lust for something more but just because I think she's a nice girl but not really my type for a relationship and I don't think I'm her's either.
I will mention one thing though, she has just dumped her boyfreind to be with my mate that's slept with 14 girls although I think she sees the 14 girls thing as a hinderance, because he's an otherwise really nice guy(not AFC but just a genuinely good bloke but he won't take any ****).
But seriously, any girl that won't take you because you've not had sex isn't worth having sex with anyway, if you're that worried about it just don't tell them.
Scrumtulescence
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Her opinion on the matter just lost all its credibility.
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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Her opinion on the matter just lost all its credibility.
lol so true
if anything I think deep down inside she likes that he was able to bag so many chicks at only 19