"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is bad-boy alpha cred something that stays with a man forever?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life...sectomy-age-60-i-missed-being-dad/2990678002/
Nikki Sixx talks about having a baby at 60, post-vasectomy: 'I missed being a dad'
The uninhibited Motley Crue bassist revealed earlier this month that he's expecting a baby girl with his wife Courtney Bingham, 33, who is five months pregnant.
my opinion: It's like these kinds of guys can just tap into the regular mating market at any time they choose, even if they're old farts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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That's beyond mere bad boy cred, that's fame and wealth at work.

But I don't think a 60 year old guy getting with a 33 year old woman is all that improbable, as long as he still has some SMV and preferably LMS.
 

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whatever chick got impregnated by Mr rockstar is gonna have a payday when he croaks, royalties to I'm assuming??
 

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These dudes are in a different stratosphere than us men. I will say this though, in HS and college I was a football player and I have retained my status with anyone who knew me at that time in life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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