"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is Atlanta a bad city for black men

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It's probably the easiest city for me to get a job in, but the culture turns me away. I'm not in to black girls and prefer white girls. I am assimilated in to upper middle class southeastern culture, but want to get away from it. Pretty much, I do not act black at all lol. My friend moved there and he is in to the bro southern gentlemen scene. Those type of girls tend to stick to white guys, so I want to avoid that at all possible. In other words, if my friend is doing well there than I will fail there lol. Plus, there's too many black men so that makes the competition tougher and it raises women's **** shields towards me. I don't remember seeing that many interracial couples down there. I saw a lot of loud aggressive black men towards women in general though. I also tindered in Atlanta and didn't match with jack **** lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your placement of white vagina on a pedestal is why you always have these complaints and issues in dating. ATL should be no problem for any decent looking, open minded guy who's trying to have fun.

Drop these antiquating notions of what it means to "act black" as well. ATL has women of various colors who behavior in various ways.
 

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Are you kidding me??? If anything, black guys get special treatment in Atlanta. It's like the place to be if you are black man....go to places like Twist to eat and for ****tails in the buckhead/Phipps area...clubs like pretty much any standard one....plenty of hot slutty blondes throw themselves at black guys in Atlanta...all the black guys I was working with were killing there....you have no excuses in Atlanta man...zero...you got tones of white chicks with black guy fetishes and heck, even Asian chicks as well dig the black guys....not to mention the hot Hispanic chicks that chase black men there....zero excuses dude...
 

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zinc4 said:
Are you kidding me??? If anything, black guys get special treatment in Atlanta. It's like the place to be if you are black man....go to places like Twist to eat and for ****tails in the buckhead/Phipps area...clubs like pretty much any standard one....plenty of hot slutty blondes throw themselves at black guys in Atlanta...all the black guys I was working with were killing there....you have no excuses in Atlanta man...zero...you got tones of white chicks with black guy fetishes and heck, even Asian chicks as well dig the black guys....not to mention the hot Hispanic chicks that chase black men there....zero excuses dude...
I don't know what you are talking about. I went to three clubs and a Jason Aldean concert and didn't get ****.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zinc4 said:
Are you kidding me??? If anything, black guys get special treatment in Atlanta. It's like the place to be if you are black man....go to places like Twist to eat and for ****tails in the buckhead/Phipps area...clubs like pretty much any standard one....plenty of hot slutty blondes throw themselves at black guys in Atlanta...all the black guys I was working with were killing there....you have no excuses in Atlanta man...zero...you got tones of white chicks with black guy fetishes and heck, even Asian chicks as well dig the black guys....not to mention the hot Hispanic chicks that chase black men there....zero excuses dude...

This.

Atlanta is a great place for black people... If anything it is a bad place for white people.

OP needs to quit the mental masturbation. He's not some thug he drives a Porsche so he can clean up even in South Carolina where they wave the Confederate flag. A lot of women want bbc
 

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I'm a black man too bro....if you don't mind me asking what exactly is acting black?
 

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I'm a black man too bro....if you don't mind me asking what exactly is acting black?
By saying acting black he means acting ghetto, undesirable, ignorant, obnoxious etc.

Basically the way most black people act. /Sarcasm
You gotta take that pūssy off the pedastal. You won't get white vagina, or any vagina for that matter with that mindset.
 

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I'm in Atlanta and was told it's the best city for black men. Lots of pretty black girls too. In fact, one of my top prospects is a black woman.
 
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I'm in Atlanta and was told it's the best city for black men. Lots of pretty black girls too. In fact, one of my top prospects is a black woman.
BigNeil!!! *** back pat ***

I need to go to ATL then. Are these some more respectful females raised with family values? I dont' care if they go thru a short period of stripping, but if they know what a good relationship is and ultimately desire that, that would be great.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DaddyLongShanks said:
BigNeil!!! *** back pat ***

I need to go to ATL then. Are these some more respectful females raised with family values? I dont' care if they go thru a short period of stripping, but if they know what a good relationship is and ultimately desire that, that would be great.
The one I met is a bartender at one of my favorite restaurants. She said she got dumped for the first time recently. She runs over and hugs me when she sees me and was the first one to call me by my name (a milestone when you are new in a city). The 2 girls whose numbers I got (not counting strippers) both wanted a relationship within 24 hours and it scared me off. And the fully nude strippers scare me off period, though the barmaids there are desperate.

Also, I checked out Memphis this week - what an incredible downtown they have. The girls there were all eager to meet a man also.
 

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I don't want black women or trashy white women lol.
 

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OP is a lost cause. These same goddamn posts all the time, and he never listens to our advice.
 

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The ratio from girl to guy is 5-1 in Atlanta. What the f are you talking about?
 

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The ratio from girl to guy is 5-1 in Atlanta.
This is the #1 factor in dating. I've lived in 25 cities and they are all remarkably different for scoring.

Bad cities for single men:

Houston, TX
Orlando, FL
Melbourne, FL
San Jose, CA
Tulsa, OK

Great cities for single men:

Austin, TX
Dallas, TX
Memphis, TN,
Atlanta, GA
Cleveland, OH

Neutral cities for single men:

San Francisco, CA
Boston, MA
New York, NY
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigneil said:
This is the #1 factor in dating. I've lived in 25 cities and they are all remarkably different for scoring.

Bad cities for single men:

Houston, TX
Orlando, FL
Melbourne, FL
San Jose, CA
Tulsa, OK

Great cities for single men:

Austin, TX
Dallas, TX
Memphis, TN,
Atlanta, GA
Cleveland, OH

Neutral cities for single men:

San Francisco, CA
Boston, MA
New York, NY
lol this is so depressing to look at since I live in San Jose. I hope that when I move to the South it will feel a lot easier.
 

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bigneil said:
This is the #1 factor in dating. I've lived in 25 cities and they are all remarkably different for scoring.

Bad cities for single men:

Houston, TX
Orlando, FL
Melbourne, FL
San Jose, CA
Tulsa, OK

Great cities for single men:

Austin, TX
Dallas, TX
Memphis, TN,
Atlanta, GA
Cleveland, OH

Neutral cities for single men:

San Francisco, CA
Boston, MA
New York, NY

Wtf is this memphid is a horrible city for every category
 

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Jaylan said:
Your placement of white vagina on a pedestal is why you always have these complaints and issues in dating. ATL should be no problem for any decent looking, open minded guy who's trying to have fun.

Drop these antiquating notions of what it means to "act black" as well. ATL has women of various colors who behavior in various ways.
So much this....noticed a lot of OP's threads he got that "White washed syndrome"

Tons of white chicks in ATL who like brothers as well OP on that Tom time
 

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I was there 2 hours and met 8 girls.

Yeah prostitutes off some alley near downtown. There is nothing to do in Memphis besides Beale street, work, and church. The city is racist af too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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