"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is Atlanta a bad city for black men

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It's probably the easiest city for me to get a job in, but the culture turns me away. I'm not in to black girls and prefer white girls. I am assimilated in to upper middle class southeastern culture, but want to get away from it. Pretty much, I do not act black at all lol. My friend moved there and he is in to the bro southern gentlemen scene. Those type of girls tend to stick to white guys, so I want to avoid that at all possible. In other words, if my friend is doing well there than I will fail there lol. Plus, there's too many black men so that makes the competition tougher and it raises women's **** shields towards me. I don't remember seeing that many interracial couples down there. I saw a lot of loud aggressive black men towards women in general though. I also tindered in Atlanta and didn't match with jack **** lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your placement of white vagina on a pedestal is why you always have these complaints and issues in dating. ATL should be no problem for any decent looking, open minded guy who's trying to have fun.

Drop these antiquating notions of what it means to "act black" as well. ATL has women of various colors who behavior in various ways.
 

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Are you kidding me??? If anything, black guys get special treatment in Atlanta. It's like the place to be if you are black man....go to places like Twist to eat and for ****tails in the buckhead/Phipps area...clubs like pretty much any standard one....plenty of hot slutty blondes throw themselves at black guys in Atlanta...all the black guys I was working with were killing there....you have no excuses in Atlanta man...zero...you got tones of white chicks with black guy fetishes and heck, even Asian chicks as well dig the black guys....not to mention the hot Hispanic chicks that chase black men there....zero excuses dude...
 

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zinc4 said:
Are you kidding me??? If anything, black guys get special treatment in Atlanta. It's like the place to be if you are black man....go to places like Twist to eat and for ****tails in the buckhead/Phipps area...clubs like pretty much any standard one....plenty of hot slutty blondes throw themselves at black guys in Atlanta...all the black guys I was working with were killing there....you have no excuses in Atlanta man...zero...you got tones of white chicks with black guy fetishes and heck, even Asian chicks as well dig the black guys....not to mention the hot Hispanic chicks that chase black men there....zero excuses dude...
I don't know what you are talking about. I went to three clubs and a Jason Aldean concert and didn't get ****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zinc4 said:
Are you kidding me??? If anything, black guys get special treatment in Atlanta. It's like the place to be if you are black man....go to places like Twist to eat and for ****tails in the buckhead/Phipps area...clubs like pretty much any standard one....plenty of hot slutty blondes throw themselves at black guys in Atlanta...all the black guys I was working with were killing there....you have no excuses in Atlanta man...zero...you got tones of white chicks with black guy fetishes and heck, even Asian chicks as well dig the black guys....not to mention the hot Hispanic chicks that chase black men there....zero excuses dude...

This.

Atlanta is a great place for black people... If anything it is a bad place for white people.

OP needs to quit the mental masturbation. He's not some thug he drives a Porsche so he can clean up even in South Carolina where they wave the Confederate flag. A lot of women want bbc
 

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I'm a black man too bro....if you don't mind me asking what exactly is acting black?
 

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I'm a black man too bro....if you don't mind me asking what exactly is acting black?
By saying acting black he means acting ghetto, undesirable, ignorant, obnoxious etc.

Basically the way most black people act. /Sarcasm
You gotta take that pūssy off the pedastal. You won't get white vagina, or any vagina for that matter with that mindset.
 

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I'm in Atlanta and was told it's the best city for black men. Lots of pretty black girls too. In fact, one of my top prospects is a black woman.
 
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I'm in Atlanta and was told it's the best city for black men. Lots of pretty black girls too. In fact, one of my top prospects is a black woman.
BigNeil!!! *** back pat ***

I need to go to ATL then. Are these some more respectful females raised with family values? I dont' care if they go thru a short period of stripping, but if they know what a good relationship is and ultimately desire that, that would be great.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DaddyLongShanks said:
BigNeil!!! *** back pat ***

I need to go to ATL then. Are these some more respectful females raised with family values? I dont' care if they go thru a short period of stripping, but if they know what a good relationship is and ultimately desire that, that would be great.
The one I met is a bartender at one of my favorite restaurants. She said she got dumped for the first time recently. She runs over and hugs me when she sees me and was the first one to call me by my name (a milestone when you are new in a city). The 2 girls whose numbers I got (not counting strippers) both wanted a relationship within 24 hours and it scared me off. And the fully nude strippers scare me off period, though the barmaids there are desperate.

Also, I checked out Memphis this week - what an incredible downtown they have. The girls there were all eager to meet a man also.
 

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I don't want black women or trashy white women lol.
 

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OP is a lost cause. These same goddamn posts all the time, and he never listens to our advice.
 

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The ratio from girl to guy is 5-1 in Atlanta. What the f are you talking about?
 

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The ratio from girl to guy is 5-1 in Atlanta.
This is the #1 factor in dating. I've lived in 25 cities and they are all remarkably different for scoring.

Bad cities for single men:

Houston, TX
Orlando, FL
Melbourne, FL
San Jose, CA
Tulsa, OK

Great cities for single men:

Austin, TX
Dallas, TX
Memphis, TN,
Atlanta, GA
Cleveland, OH

Neutral cities for single men:

San Francisco, CA
Boston, MA
New York, NY
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigneil said:
This is the #1 factor in dating. I've lived in 25 cities and they are all remarkably different for scoring.

Bad cities for single men:

Houston, TX
Orlando, FL
Melbourne, FL
San Jose, CA
Tulsa, OK

Great cities for single men:

Austin, TX
Dallas, TX
Memphis, TN,
Atlanta, GA
Cleveland, OH

Neutral cities for single men:

San Francisco, CA
Boston, MA
New York, NY
lol this is so depressing to look at since I live in San Jose. I hope that when I move to the South it will feel a lot easier.
 

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bigneil said:
This is the #1 factor in dating. I've lived in 25 cities and they are all remarkably different for scoring.

Bad cities for single men:

Houston, TX
Orlando, FL
Melbourne, FL
San Jose, CA
Tulsa, OK

Great cities for single men:

Austin, TX
Dallas, TX
Memphis, TN,
Atlanta, GA
Cleveland, OH

Neutral cities for single men:

San Francisco, CA
Boston, MA
New York, NY

Wtf is this memphid is a horrible city for every category
 

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Jaylan said:
Your placement of white vagina on a pedestal is why you always have these complaints and issues in dating. ATL should be no problem for any decent looking, open minded guy who's trying to have fun.

Drop these antiquating notions of what it means to "act black" as well. ATL has women of various colors who behavior in various ways.
So much this....noticed a lot of OP's threads he got that "White washed syndrome"

Tons of white chicks in ATL who like brothers as well OP on that Tom time
 

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I was there 2 hours and met 8 girls.

Yeah prostitutes off some alley near downtown. There is nothing to do in Memphis besides Beale street, work, and church. The city is racist af too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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