"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is anybody here a teacher?

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Hi, if you're a teacher, you're in the right thread. I am considering teaching as a career choice. Any tips? Criticisms?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Master Bates said:
enjoy your 17k a year.
Maybe for a junior teacher with little training. My bud's mom clears $70K a year, with a MA and 13 years experience. Not bad for teaching a bunch of highschool kids how to do geometry.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Maybe for a junior teacher with little training. My bud's mom clears $70K a year, with a MA and 13 years experience. Not bad for teaching a bunch of highschool kids how to do geometry.
Nah, you'll be making close 40k/year right off the bat, for high school. Yeah, it is about 70-80k/year for teachers with a lot of experience and credentials, etc. Great benefits, and very strong union. You can also do different things for extra money. Not for everyone, though.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Nah, you'll be making close 40k/year right off the bat, for high school. Yeah, it is about 70-80k/year for teachers with a lot of experience and credentials, etc. Great benefits, and very strong union. You can also do different things for extra money. Not for everyone, though.
Yeah, I think master bates was speaking in hyperbole, but I think the only possible way a teacher could be making only 17k would be if they were in poor rural communities.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe he likes to work with students/kids. You don't know why he's asking. If it is just for the money, there are plenty of jobs you can dislike that will pay you more.
 
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