You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
He cant help it, too blazed.KarmaSutra said:Perhaps you should have explained yourself more thoroughly, turd.
Don't be a lazy c0ck and use abbreviations when you can easily type it out, ie- idc.
Fvcking women speak in abbreviations when they're texting their girlfriends.
Kwim?
Correct. I'm neither Dubfire nor Sharam. I picked this SoSuave name eons before getting into DJing when I was just an enthusiastic club kib. It was listening to their 1998 BBC Radio One Essential Mix a week before going to their concert six years ago which introduced me to progressive house and changed the course of my life. Plus, it's just a really cool name. I now regret choosing the name for a couple of reasons but whatever, I have to stick with it (except I may start posting my mixes under a new name). Coincidentally, I'm trying to figure out a DJ nickname for my real life persona and was just thinking about it moments ago.fuzzx said:IDeep Dish I believe is a DJ... or at least he uses the name of a local DJ... might not be the same person though.
I totally agree with you that there's no fun not having any controls. Presentation is important and you can't do nearly as much with just a computer keyboard and mouse. Try playing two or three tracks at once and mixing by EQ while looping tracks—you just can't do it all simultaneously. Being a human Winamp or iTunes is just being a glorified jukebox and misses out on the ethos and art of DJing—which, contrary to conventional wisdom of non-DJs, does absolutely exist—but there is a workaround.Fuzzx:
I see alot of people use their laptops and software for that type of thing though.... but I like to have the controls right in front of me and when it comes to DJing, half the battle is about presentation. A DJ could in theory (many do) just sit infront of an audience and push play on winamp but where's the entertainment in that?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DJing isn't that expensive for beginners these days. I'm guessing you want to just be a run of the mill mix DJ, so you can get away with some low/mid range gear to see if DJing is for you. If you want to be a turntablist/battle DJ it's going to be pretty expensive right from the start.eatgel said:Guys I want to be a dj and travel around the world and meets lot of hot girls and have friends all over the world! jk I just want to dj since Im going to hawaii next year. Btw anybody know how the nightlife in hawaii is?
Eatgle, what're, u like 10 years old ?? Grow upeatgel said:KarmaSutra stfu! your awefully mean for a 35 year old. People fukk up even djs do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
^^ This is true for the most part. However I will say that most places I play at provide both Turntables and CDJ, so I usually end up mixing both. Maybe thats just the case here in Europe, mileage may vary in the States.DeepDish said:Vinyl has lost its relevance in todays' evolution of technology. I am either friends with or share a mutual friend with probably every DJ in Orlando's house/techno scene. Many have vinyl turntables in their homes, relics of the past, but I don't know a soul who plays out with turntables.