Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
And you're letting someone you consider a "tard" push your buttons... What's worse? Open your mind and expand the limitations of your perception. You'd be pleasantly surprised about what you might learn...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
is ANY girlfriend better than NO girlfriend ?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
gixxer
Don Juan
Scordate, this post doesn't have anything to do with that overweight girl you met at the singles party last week does it? Last I knew you were setting up an FB not a GF. Am I going to have to fly out to Europe and slap you? LOL
gixx
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Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
No
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iveyleeger
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Who remembers the "Fvck Fiance"?
Ha... you are right.
It's because a woman definitely DOES NOT want her man looking better than her. A lot of the times a woman will date a man hotter than herself but will have a hard time sustaining the relationship. From my experience asking women this question, most would not date a man better looking than herself. There are exceptions though... (some outgoing women, some FChicks, some UglyChicks)
Men are more driven my looks so initially they are going to look for hot women.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BigDawg
Don Juan
Right, and very few guys will openly admit to shagging a fugly. We all the want the best we can get, right?:woo:
Ok I will give you just one practical reason why NO should be your answer.
What if banging this girl who you aren't attracted to (I am even more concerned if the girl isn't good looking and has a lousy personality) and by some twist of faith you get one past the goalie and get her pregnant?
I banged a 5 one time, She went psycho on me and called all the time. For a very short while I was freaking out that I got her pregnant.
So the answer is NO.
I think experience with women is great, and from that standpoint it would sound like a good idea. But be CAREFUL
What if banging this girl who you aren't attracted to (I am even more concerned if the girl isn't good looking and has a lousy personality) and by some twist of faith you get one past the goalie and get her pregnant?
I banged a 5 one time, She went psycho on me and called all the time. For a very short while I was freaking out that I got her pregnant.
So the answer is NO.
I think experience with women is great, and from that standpoint it would sound like a good idea. But be CAREFUL
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
I think you know the answer to this one
No, there should always be a reason for dating a girl.
As far as I am concerned, you have to be at least attracted to the girl.
The next question is, IS SHE GOING TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER?
If she is a PITA, then you are better off without her.
Unless you are me, of course, and enjoy overcoming tests and challenges that stuck-up princesses tend to throw at you.
No, there should always be a reason for dating a girl.
As far as I am concerned, you have to be at least attracted to the girl.
The next question is, IS SHE GOING TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER?
If she is a PITA, then you are better off without her.
Unless you are me, of course, and enjoy overcoming tests and challenges that stuck-up princesses tend to throw at you.
iveyleeger
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PITA??
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
PITA
PITA is an acronym for
Pain in the a*s
In other words, high maintenance girls, princesses, attention *****s (AWs), etc
If she doesn't make you happy or proud, then there are better things to do with your precious TIME and MONEY.
None of us are getting any younger.
PITA is an acronym for
Pain in the a*s
In other words, high maintenance girls, princesses, attention *****s (AWs), etc
If she doesn't make you happy or proud, then there are better things to do with your precious TIME and MONEY.
None of us are getting any younger.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Alright, time for another Iron Rule of Tomassi:
No Girlfriend is ALWAYS preferable to settling for any girlfriend.
The opposite of this smacks, no, it reeks of ONEitis, a complete lack of confidence and supplication. You are not the PRIZE, if you'll settle for anything less than an optimal situation with a woman and the women you would want to get with will pick up on this like you were wearing a sandwich board on a busy intersection advertising it. A man's default should ALWAYS be to opt for no attachment rather than becoming involved in a less than perfect opportunity. Your independence is your strongest attractant and something a man should jealously guard - only then will he, and the woman chooses to share it with truly appreciate his own value.
Also, while I will agree that rating a woman on a 1-10 scale is most definitely adjusted by geographical regions, I also think that there is no such thing as a perfect 10 based only on her appearance. Performance makes up that last point. I wouldn't buy a Corvette that had a moped engine under the hood.
No Girlfriend is ALWAYS preferable to settling for any girlfriend.
The opposite of this smacks, no, it reeks of ONEitis, a complete lack of confidence and supplication. You are not the PRIZE, if you'll settle for anything less than an optimal situation with a woman and the women you would want to get with will pick up on this like you were wearing a sandwich board on a busy intersection advertising it. A man's default should ALWAYS be to opt for no attachment rather than becoming involved in a less than perfect opportunity. Your independence is your strongest attractant and something a man should jealously guard - only then will he, and the woman chooses to share it with truly appreciate his own value.
Also, while I will agree that rating a woman on a 1-10 scale is most definitely adjusted by geographical regions, I also think that there is no such thing as a perfect 10 based only on her appearance. Performance makes up that last point. I wouldn't buy a Corvette that had a moped engine under the hood.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
^--- listen to Rollo Tomassi
an acid test is what ricky said
imagine your genes crossed with hers ie. she gets pregnant
would you want to have a kid by accident with a fugly whale ?
NO CHICKS WITH HUMPS !
word gets around
don't waste time and money on h0ez that go nowhere
what penkitten said was a great parable also
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
an acid test is what ricky said
imagine your genes crossed with hers ie. she gets pregnant
would you want to have a kid by accident with a fugly whale ?
NO CHICKS WITH HUMPS !
word gets around
don't waste time and money on h0ez that go nowhere
what penkitten said was a great parable also
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
brat-buster
Don Juan
I have this one, (out of 3) she's about a 7 from the waist up. Only problem is she is a bit chunky in the butt. I wouln't say fat but a bit plump.
Nice girl and all, cooks for me, fvcks and svcks well, fun to hang with, don't spend a dime on her. Problem is she would love to be my girlfreind but I know I can do better. In the end i will probably end up dumpin her for a newer model at some point.
Will most likely have another heartache on my list as a result of having a GF (or FB) as opposed to no GF (or FB).
Nice girl and all, cooks for me, fvcks and svcks well, fun to hang with, don't spend a dime on her. Problem is she would love to be my girlfreind but I know I can do better. In the end i will probably end up dumpin her for a newer model at some point.
Will most likely have another heartache on my list as a result of having a GF (or FB) as opposed to no GF (or FB).
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
brat-buster your chucky butt woman needs some pimp wisdom applied to her generous hind quarters
Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"You can't make a Ho a Housewife."
Neither can you make a Housewife a Ho. Many a divorced man has tried. She sucks and fvcks real good because she wants you as an LTR. Put a ring on her finger and you'll see how quick that well dries up. Then you'll be married to that ghetto booty and the bait & switch will be complete.
Buyer beware.
Neither can you make a Housewife a Ho. Many a divorced man has tried. She sucks and fvcks real good because she wants you as an LTR. Put a ring on her finger and you'll see how quick that well dries up. Then you'll be married to that ghetto booty and the bait & switch will be complete.
Buyer beware.
brat-buster
Don Juan
I will consider myself warned. I have told her I'm not looking for a LTR I'm just out to have fun. But chicks....like us guys......only hear what they want.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I think that happens once children come into the picture. It's as if both people change their roles to focus on the kids. Sad...