"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is ambition sexy to women? Why? Why Not?

Do women find ambition sexy?


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Megaman XIV

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I just had to ask this. People say that women find you attractive if you're ambitious. Is that for real or is it bull$hit?

Do you guys think that ambition and hard work is sexy to women? Why or why not?
 

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SamTheHobit

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Different women find different thing attractive.. Besides you should be doing things to improve yourself and not impress women.
 

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I personally think ambition is attractive. It is a person-to-person basis but if you're seeking an ambitious woman most likely she's going to like/expect the same trait in her match. I've come across dudes that have absolutely no ambition in life and get completely turned off to being friends with them.

Here's food for thought. A girl literally just posted this minutes ago on Facebook. I saw it on my newsfeed right before reading this thread... and she's smoking hot!


HANDSOME in my movement...Hardworking, Ambitious, Notable, Dedicated, Sexy, Optimistic, Motivated, Educated...❤
So yes, I'd say so!

Edit: I also just asked my assistant, as she's sitting right next to me, and she concurs!
 

omega05

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Of course woman say they like ambition. What woman is gonna say "I dont like ambition"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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Ambition usually grants you a ticket to the queue but only when that ambition is paying dividends you reach the top position.

Surely its great to make it clear that you have have a six pack, get powerful and rich but only when you actually do that it really matters.

Girls nowadays live in the moment like children, if given the choice between having a candy now or an entire box tomorrow they would be already pulling your hand while you were finishing your proposal.

Anyway as mnay said being ambition is not something you can create or fake, either you are or you are not, many guys are content by living simple life with no responsibilities or worries while others aim for the kill and are ready to sweat and take risks for that.
 

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Who do women want?

1. A working man trying to come up and full of ambition but has bank that's nothing to write home about.

2. A working man who made it as a successful businessman and has the ambition (and resources) to start another venture.

I'm betting on #2. Women live in the now. I've never seen a woman get wet for a "future millionaire." I've seen them get wet for a man driving a Aston Martin!

Ambition USED TO be sexy in the 80's & 90's, but not now. Your ambition doesn't make your bank or body look any better.
 

SoSuave666

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Who Dares Win said:
Girls nowadays live in the moment like children, if given the choice between having a candy now or an entire box tomorrow they would be already pulling your hand while you were finishing your proposal.
Word brother.
 
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