"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is ambition sexy to women? Why? Why Not?

Do women find ambition sexy?


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Megaman XIV

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I just had to ask this. People say that women find you attractive if you're ambitious. Is that for real or is it bull$hit?

Do you guys think that ambition and hard work is sexy to women? Why or why not?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamTheHobit

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Different women find different thing attractive.. Besides you should be doing things to improve yourself and not impress women.
 

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I personally think ambition is attractive. It is a person-to-person basis but if you're seeking an ambitious woman most likely she's going to like/expect the same trait in her match. I've come across dudes that have absolutely no ambition in life and get completely turned off to being friends with them.

Here's food for thought. A girl literally just posted this minutes ago on Facebook. I saw it on my newsfeed right before reading this thread... and she's smoking hot!


HANDSOME in my movement...Hardworking, Ambitious, Notable, Dedicated, Sexy, Optimistic, Motivated, Educated...❤
So yes, I'd say so!

Edit: I also just asked my assistant, as she's sitting right next to me, and she concurs!
 

omega05

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Of course woman say they like ambition. What woman is gonna say "I dont like ambition"?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who Dares Win

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Ambition usually grants you a ticket to the queue but only when that ambition is paying dividends you reach the top position.

Surely its great to make it clear that you have have a six pack, get powerful and rich but only when you actually do that it really matters.

Girls nowadays live in the moment like children, if given the choice between having a candy now or an entire box tomorrow they would be already pulling your hand while you were finishing your proposal.

Anyway as mnay said being ambition is not something you can create or fake, either you are or you are not, many guys are content by living simple life with no responsibilities or worries while others aim for the kill and are ready to sweat and take risks for that.
 

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Who do women want?

1. A working man trying to come up and full of ambition but has bank that's nothing to write home about.

2. A working man who made it as a successful businessman and has the ambition (and resources) to start another venture.

I'm betting on #2. Women live in the now. I've never seen a woman get wet for a "future millionaire." I've seen them get wet for a man driving a Aston Martin!

Ambition USED TO be sexy in the 80's & 90's, but not now. Your ambition doesn't make your bank or body look any better.
 

SoSuave666

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Who Dares Win said:
Girls nowadays live in the moment like children, if given the choice between having a candy now or an entire box tomorrow they would be already pulling your hand while you were finishing your proposal.
Word brother.
 
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