Is a womanizer a "loser"?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading this, and it got me outraged:

https://tinyurl.com/q9vtulv

“A ‘fückboy’ is a young man who sleeps with women without any intention of having a relationship with them or perhaps even walking them to the door post-sex. He’s a womanizer, an especially callous one, as well as kind of a loser.”

“Fückboy is not a dating style ... so much as a worldview that reeks of entitlement but is aghast at the prospect of putting in effort.” ... a fückboy is a man who wants a girlfriend without the attendant responsibilities. Fückboys “become emotional vampires to women who aren’t even their girlfriends.”

If Sales and Massey agree on anything, it’s that a fückboy is the worst kind of guy, or at least one who represents the worst trends of the present moment.

my opinion: It seems that a man that is desirable enough for a woman to want to date, but that does wish to be only with that woman, is a fückboy. Is he worse that an undesirable, "invisible" Incel that the woman would not even date?

 

[ohrein]

Woman sleeps with man before in a relationship. Complains man sleeps with her but won't be in a relationship. Wonder what the possible solution could be? Stop sleeping around? Oh but then that's slut shaming women! Women should be allowed to sleep around! Okay then, so should men? No, they're ****boys. Okay, I see. Makes perfect sense. Definitely not an emotional reaction.

 

[thelittleprince]

Don't slvt shame but fvckboy

Exactly. Double standards.

 

[thelittleprince]

Woman sleeps with man before in a relationship. Complains man sleeps with her but won't be in a relationship. Wonder what the possible solution could be? Stop sleeping around? Oh but then that's slut shaming women! Women should be allowed to sleep around! Okay then, so should men? No, they're ****boys. Okay, I see. Makes perfect sense. Definitely not an emotional reaction.

Agree it's bollocks

 

[thelittleprince]

Media bull**** AFC feminine primacy supporting self censoring idiots dooming themselves to a life of mediocre sex and doing the dishes. This guy deserves our forgiveness because I bet he rejoices when he finally gets his woman to lay down and pretend to have sex with him whilst she is probably thinking about the last alpha she actually got the hits for

I quote

"so much as a worldview that reeks of entitlement but is aghast at the prospect of putting in effort"

So it's entitled to want to have sex and not commit to some form of feminine conformity but not entitled to expect someone to change their behaviour for you.

I'd say that's self entitled, arrogant and co dependency all at once.

What a wanker!