"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is a woman who marries her step-father bipolar?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Findog

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MatureDJ said:
Evidently this advice columnist thinks so ...

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/...s_leaving_me_for_my_25_year_old_daughter.html

I think the columnist is trying to shame him into staying with the old woman.
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If he doesn't want to be with the mom anymore, that's fine. It sucks for the mom, but there's nothing necessarily morally wrong with it. Sorry, but shacking up with the stepdaughter is morally repugnant. There's plenty of other fish in the sea to choose from.
 
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samspade said:
He should have stayed single rather than marry and cheat....nevertheless he's not related to her adult daughter. So while I can see why the wife is devastated, that doesn't make her daughter mentally ill. But this kind of b.s. is par for the course for this stupid columnist. Her headlines and stories are for women to read so they can be shocked, shocked....just like Us Weekly and their daily soaps. Women are perversely fascinated by this crap, and they love to feign disapproval. Deep down, their 25-year-old inner selves would be thrilled to have a clandestine affair that's so socially disapproved. If that's a mental disorder, then lock 'em all up I guess.
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It may not be mental illness, but there is something wrong with this scenario. The daughter can find a good-looking guy her age or another sugar daddy. The stepdad can find another girl with daddy issues to dote on. Some things you just don't do.
 
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Findog said:
If he doesn't want to be with the mom anymore, that's fine. It sucks for the mom, but there's nothing necessarily morally wrong with it. Sorry, but shacking up with the stepdaughter is morally repugnant. There's plenty of other fish in the sea to choose from.
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This. Walk away, find something new. Don't do this.

I think the columnist is trying to shame him into staying with the old woman.
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No. That's far off the mark in my opinion. I think she's legitimately trying to understand the daughter's motivation and has just written the man off as a creep. The first thing that came to my mind was Woody Allen.
 
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Hi MDJ,
So is Woody Allens cute little Korean Babe,Bi-Polar?....Seems to me,that Bi-Polar is like that much over used word "Paranoid"....A lady who is a bit eccentric in a way that someone finds distasteful is immediately branded Bi-Polar...Why???
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Findog said:
If he doesn't want to be with the mom anymore, that's fine. It sucks for the mom, but there's nothing necessarily morally wrong with it. Sorry, but shacking up with the stepdaughter is morally repugnant. There's plenty of other fish in the sea to choose from.
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Yeah there are tons of 25 year olds to choose from for a 58 year old.

Sometimes happiness comes at a moral cost. Oh well.
 
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mrRuckus said:
Yeah there are tons of 25 year olds to choose from for a 58 year old.

Sometimes happiness comes at a moral cost. Oh well.
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If a guy is rich and well off and takes care of himself, there are indeed plenty of 25 year olds with daddy issues to choose from.
 
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mrRuckus said:
Sometimes happiness comes at a moral cost. Oh well.
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I'm tempted to quote law of power #5. So much depends on reputation. Guard it with your life.

But seriously, fuuck everyone else.
 
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