"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is a woman being polyandrous simply having a set of orbitors that are more "tightly bound"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.vox.com/conversations/2017/2/23/14684236/monogamy-valentines-day-polyamory-marriage-love

my opinion: It seems that what such polyandrous women are doing is simply keeping the same set of orbiters that all women like to have, but having them more "tightly bound", which allows for their sexual needs to be filled in addition to the attention needs. And I have a hunch that her orbiters simply consider her to be a FWB, so it's no big deal to them - or alternatively, consider her to be a hwore that can be purchased with a little attention - with the exception of her husband, who is just an incredible beta who is put into this position and just deals with it because he figures he could not get a comparable piece of a33.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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There's just as many poly men who have multiple women, if not more, than there are women being polyandrous. The ones I know are more like free love hippies out of the 60's. They like to live together like little communes/cults. Not everyone has sex with everyone else. Sometimes people bring along their ex or baby momma/daddy.
 
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