"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is a woman being polyandrous simply having a set of orbitors that are more "tightly bound"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.vox.com/conversations/2017/2/23/14684236/monogamy-valentines-day-polyamory-marriage-love

my opinion: It seems that what such polyandrous women are doing is simply keeping the same set of orbiters that all women like to have, but having them more "tightly bound", which allows for their sexual needs to be filled in addition to the attention needs. And I have a hunch that her orbiters simply consider her to be a FWB, so it's no big deal to them - or alternatively, consider her to be a hwore that can be purchased with a little attention - with the exception of her husband, who is just an incredible beta who is put into this position and just deals with it because he figures he could not get a comparable piece of a33.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt

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There's just as many poly men who have multiple women, if not more, than there are women being polyandrous. The ones I know are more like free love hippies out of the 60's. They like to live together like little communes/cults. Not everyone has sex with everyone else. Sometimes people bring along their ex or baby momma/daddy.
 
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