"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is a woman being polyandrous simply having a set of orbitors that are more "tightly bound"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.vox.com/conversations/2017/2/23/14684236/monogamy-valentines-day-polyamory-marriage-love

my opinion: It seems that what such polyandrous women are doing is simply keeping the same set of orbiters that all women like to have, but having them more "tightly bound", which allows for their sexual needs to be filled in addition to the attention needs. And I have a hunch that her orbiters simply consider her to be a FWB, so it's no big deal to them - or alternatively, consider her to be a hwore that can be purchased with a little attention - with the exception of her husband, who is just an incredible beta who is put into this position and just deals with it because he figures he could not get a comparable piece of a33.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible_Belt

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There's just as many poly men who have multiple women, if not more, than there are women being polyandrous. The ones I know are more like free love hippies out of the 60's. They like to live together like little communes/cults. Not everyone has sex with everyone else. Sometimes people bring along their ex or baby momma/daddy.
 
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