"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is a "natural sperm donor" taking advanage of "vulnerable women"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...perm-donors--YOU-risk-parenting-stranger.html
Women desperate to become mothers are increasingly signing up for sperm donation websites where men are offering 'natural insemination' only.

Sites including co-parents.net, co-parentmatch.com, spermdonorforum.com, donordaddy.co.uk and pollentree.com advertise themselves as 'dating websites', forums aiming to link people wishing to conceive or 'co-parent' a child.
Many men on these sites will not offer artificial insemination (AI), only natural (NI) or partial (PI), leading some critics to believe they are simply targeting vulnerable women for free sex.
So while regulated HFEA clinics - which charge £2,000 per cycle - screen all donors for STDs and hereditary conditions, 'free' sperm donation websites do not. Similarly, clinics protect the identity of donors until any child produced is 18, while the conditions of donation via free websites is entirely up to the co-parents.
Zita West of Zita West Clinics, an HFEA-regulated site, told Croydon: 'When a woman's desperate for a baby and can't afford a clinic, she's vulnerable.

'She may be panicking about her biological clock ticking and might then risk meeting one of these men.
my opinion: Oh heaven forfend that a man wants to get off a few good ejaculations inside a warm piece of poontang in exchange for giving a woman a baby! :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who Dares Win

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1) no one forces to women to do something they dont want

2) a kid is not a gadget or a purse that women are entitled to get when they want it how they want it

3) non having a kid on demand is surely not a violated human right
 

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How dare you naturally reproduce! What is wrong with your people!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The women are asking for the sex and the men are giving it. This is called "consent." It means that both people are agreeing to have sex that is voluntary. Any questions? Need I explain more?
 
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