"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is a husband having sex with wife who is "not of sound mind" rape?

MatureDJ

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This is more of a topic for the very mature man, but with some relevance for everyone else.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/artic...usband-of-alzheimer-s-patient-takes-the-stand

With this case as a precedent, I could feminists claiming that the situation in which a husband & wife are drinking & having sex would be rape since the woman would not be of sober mind! :nervous: :eek:

Perhaps in the future the only way a man can claim that he did not rape a woman is if he pays for a pro? :trouble:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That's the way it is in the military. They brief to everyone that no one can consent to sex while they've been drinking. So if you go out to a bar and pick up a woman in the military and you are in the military and you hook up and she has buyer's remorse in the morning, she has grounds to say that you raped her. Total BS I feel like. I could see if she was totally out of it but just drinking 1-3 drinks? I asked the briefer if the man could call it rape also. That didn't go over very well although she did agree that this could happen. I'm very happy I don't have deal with that crap anymore.

It got crazy with stuff like that before I retired. I sincerely hope these concepts are not making their way into the civilian sector. Can you imagine the number of cases that will be in our court systems? There will be tons of women that will have buyer's remorse and there will be countless men whose lives will be ruined if this becomes reality.
 

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A woman of sound mind?

Where is she?

Need to take her in for testing and evaluation so they may be replicated lol.
 

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Look at it this way, you may ask all 106,000+ members of SS and we all might say a clear cut "no, it's not rape". But all a guy needs is that one Judge who says it is rape to ruin his life.

@Glass half full, the woman of sound mind will be here on the 32nd of this month. Watch your calendar, and when it's the 32nd, she will appear.
 

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Yeah, apparently according to the courts it is. Many feminists used to say "All sex is rape". It seems like they would like to have that option legally to throw any guy in jail on a whim. And of course, it's the males who enforce this nonsense.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MatureDJ said:
This is more of a topic for the very mature man, but with some relevance for everyone else.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/artic...usband-of-alzheimer-s-patient-takes-the-stand

With this case as a precedent, I could feminists claiming that the situation in which a husband & wife are drinking & having sex would be rape since the woman would not be of sober mind! :nervous: :eek:

Perhaps in the future the only way a man can claim that he did not rape a woman is if he pays for a pro? :trouble:
Geez, I hope femnazis don't run with this...I guess we need to set our cell phones on "record" around women...sheesh

Perhaps the roommate was jealous she wasn't getting any herself.
If there were no signs of struggle it would seem he had a right to some nooky.

BTW Lefty, I'm not waiting that long...lol
Hell freezing over more likely :D
 

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glass half full said:
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Geez, I hope femnazis don't run with this...I guess we need to set our cell phones on "record" around women...sheesh

Perhaps the roommate was jealous she wasn't getting any herself.
If there were no signs of struggle it would seem he had a right to some nooky.

BTW Lefty, I'm not waiting that long...lol
Hell freezing over more likely :D
This made me laugh...Reminds me of the meme I saw the other day:

Optimist: The glass is half full
Pessimist: The glass is half empty
Feminist: The glass is being raped

http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/903/450/6dc.jpg
 
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