I was wondering about this. To me, a hot girl will almost always be pulled into the in crowd because her looks have value. Even if she's shy, she will always be surrounded by both guys and girls. Does anyone know any hot girls that have no friends and are complete loners?
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Is A Hot Girl Ever Antisocial?
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Unless she has mental problems, you aren't going to find that combination. Even then, someone (you know us guys can be predators) will get to her. There's a lot of value placed on a female with good looks, no matter what her situation is.
It's definitely possible. Ive yet to meet any, but im sure theyre out there.
Just cuz you're hot doesnt mean you will always be valued, there are always jealous ppl out there. And believe me, girls are competitive by nature...when it comes down to a guy they will chase him. Why do you think ugly chicks have hot friends and vice versa?
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They exist.... I dated one for 3 years.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DJ_in_making
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They aren't usually anti-social b/c they are always the center of all fun social situations. Or are extremely popular among their peers. They can however not have very good communication skills b/c all they had to rely on was their hotness.
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Yes, I've met several, f***ed some and have one as MLTR now.
One of my MLTR's is a HB9.5 model. She says, anytime she is around men by herself or with other women, she's continuously "hit on". For over 20 years now.
in church during prayer, in the hospital bed recovering from surgery, at a funeral during the eulogy, during medical exams.
Every man that has ever entered her life has tried to sex her. Neighbors, co-workers, friends, first cousins, salesmen, store clerks, professionals she hired, the mail man, etc.
Every straight woman she's ever tried to be friends with becomes jealous of the attention shift. I've seen guys physically push HB9's out of the way to get to her.
Every gay or bi woman has tried to bed her.
I know she is exaggerating because it can't be 100%, but I have seen a lot of this.
They're not very common, but they're the easiest for me to pickup and lay.
One of my MLTR's is a HB9.5 model. She says, anytime she is around men by herself or with other women, she's continuously "hit on". For over 20 years now.
in church during prayer, in the hospital bed recovering from surgery, at a funeral during the eulogy, during medical exams.
Every man that has ever entered her life has tried to sex her. Neighbors, co-workers, friends, first cousins, salesmen, store clerks, professionals she hired, the mail man, etc.
Every straight woman she's ever tried to be friends with becomes jealous of the attention shift. I've seen guys physically push HB9's out of the way to get to her.
Every gay or bi woman has tried to bed her.
I know she is exaggerating because it can't be 100%, but I have seen a lot of this.
They're not very common, but they're the easiest for me to pickup and lay.
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yes, but men will worship her while other women will hate her.... Poor lil pretty girl.
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Have you noticed hot shy girls tend to use less makeup than hot outgoing girls?
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Depressed, sure......crazy, definitely.....but being hot and a complete loner is HIGHLY unlikely cus I don't think anyone wants to be by themselves all the time and if you're a HB9.5 getting companionship is not hard
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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NO every single hot girl in the world no no no in the universe is very social. Not one antisocial attractive girl exists. All Muslims are terrorists, all Jewish people are rich and cheap all ugly people are anti social. All the popular kids have to play some sort of sport. Black people are all gangsters to.
Your question was stupid.
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Your question was stupid.
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The woman I was referring to has a bad frame. She sees sexual neediness in all men. I think it's an example of anything taken to the extreme can be viewed as a bad thing. She is anti-social, but she really values going places with me because she usually has only pickup attempts when I am out of sight. Oh, I forgot to mention in my first post another significant factor is that she very closely resembles a famous actress, so she's also getting the attention from that.
Talk to famous people, men or women. Most of them appear to be anti-social, by strictly limiting access to themselves, but they wish they could lead a normal life.
Guys, try to imagine this because it's similar to what she's been through:
You are super rich and famous. Everyone knows this. Nearly every women that you come in contact with, approaches and opens you. They all show a desire for your money within the first 5 minutes. You would probably love this at first. Eventually, you would begin to realize that nearly all the time you spend in public is wasted, spent rejecting one after another. You might hire body guards to isolate you from the public or stay at home a lot more.
Talk to famous people, men or women. Most of them appear to be anti-social, by strictly limiting access to themselves, but they wish they could lead a normal life.
Guys, try to imagine this because it's similar to what she's been through:
You are super rich and famous. Everyone knows this. Nearly every women that you come in contact with, approaches and opens you. They all show a desire for your money within the first 5 minutes. You would probably love this at first. Eventually, you would begin to realize that nearly all the time you spend in public is wasted, spent rejecting one after another. You might hire body guards to isolate you from the public or stay at home a lot more.
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No you’re generalizing and stereotyping with that question. If you had a brain you would know that attractive women can be loners it is even pretty common for them to be loners.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Paintballguy
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I've ran into a situation where a girl had serious mental image problems and therefore thought she was ugly. Mainly because she used to be chunky but lost weight and got hot. But not really antisocial so to speak.
By your logic, Black Italian, there would be no point in having this site because all advice given is based on some generalization. Yes, a hot girl can be antisocial. But I want you to give me some examples as how this could be the case. Give me a theory to counter my own.
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