"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is A Hot Girl Ever Antisocial?

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I was wondering about this. To me, a hot girl will almost always be pulled into the in crowd because her looks have value. Even if she's shy, she will always be surrounded by both guys and girls. Does anyone know any hot girls that have no friends and are complete loners?
 

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
I was wondering about this. To me, a hot girl will almost always be pulled into the in crowd because her looks have value. Even if she's shy, she will always be surrounded by both guys and girls. Does anyone know any hot girls that have no friends and are complete loners?
Honestly, I dont



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Unless she has mental problems, you aren't going to find that combination. Even then, someone (you know us guys can be predators) will get to her. There's a lot of value placed on a female with good looks, no matter what her situation is.
 

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
I was wondering about this. To me, a hot girl will almost always be pulled into the in crowd because her looks have value. Even if she's shy, she will always be surrounded by both guys and girls. Does anyone know any hot girls that have no friends and are complete loners?
It's definitely possible. Ive yet to meet any, but im sure theyre out there.

Just cuz you're hot doesnt mean you will always be valued, there are always jealous ppl out there. And believe me, girls are competitive by nature...when it comes down to a guy they will chase him. Why do you think ugly chicks have hot friends and vice versa?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They aren't usually anti-social b/c they are always the center of all fun social situations. Or are extremely popular among their peers. They can however not have very good communication skills b/c all they had to rely on was their hotness.
 

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Yes, I've met several, f***ed some and have one as MLTR now.

One of my MLTR's is a HB9.5 model. She says, anytime she is around men by herself or with other women, she's continuously "hit on". For over 20 years now.

in church during prayer, in the hospital bed recovering from surgery, at a funeral during the eulogy, during medical exams.

Every man that has ever entered her life has tried to sex her. Neighbors, co-workers, friends, first cousins, salesmen, store clerks, professionals she hired, the mail man, etc.

Every straight woman she's ever tried to be friends with becomes jealous of the attention shift. I've seen guys physically push HB9's out of the way to get to her.

Every gay or bi woman has tried to bed her.

I know she is exaggerating because it can't be 100%, but I have seen a lot of this.

They're not very common, but they're the easiest for me to pickup and lay.
 

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yes, but men will worship her while other women will hate her.... Poor lil pretty girl.
 

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Have you noticed hot shy girls tend to use less makeup than hot outgoing girls?
 

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Depressed, sure......crazy, definitely.....but being hot and a complete loner is HIGHLY unlikely cus I don't think anyone wants to be by themselves all the time and if you're a HB9.5 getting companionship is not hard
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NO every single hot girl in the world no no no in the universe is very social. Not one antisocial attractive girl exists. All Muslims are terrorists, all Jewish people are rich and cheap all ugly people are anti social. All the popular kids have to play some sort of sport. Black people are all gangsters to.

Your question was stupid.

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
NO every single hot girl in the world no no no in the universe is very social. Not one antisocial attractive girl exists. All Muslims are terrorists, all Jewish people are rich and cheap all ugly people are anti social. All the popular kids have to play some sort of sport. Black people are all gangsters to.

Your question was stupid.

Ninja out
My question was based on theory and observation rather than on exact numbers. If you had a brain, you would know that.
 

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The woman I was referring to has a bad frame. She sees sexual neediness in all men. I think it's an example of anything taken to the extreme can be viewed as a bad thing. She is anti-social, but she really values going places with me because she usually has only pickup attempts when I am out of sight. Oh, I forgot to mention in my first post another significant factor is that she very closely resembles a famous actress, so she's also getting the attention from that.

Talk to famous people, men or women. Most of them appear to be anti-social, by strictly limiting access to themselves, but they wish they could lead a normal life.

Guys, try to imagine this because it's similar to what she's been through:

You are super rich and famous. Everyone knows this. Nearly every women that you come in contact with, approaches and opens you. They all show a desire for your money within the first 5 minutes. You would probably love this at first. Eventually, you would begin to realize that nearly all the time you spend in public is wasted, spent rejecting one after another. You might hire body guards to isolate you from the public or stay at home a lot more.
 

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I knew this super hot girl that was a loner. I'm pretty sure she had mental problems.
 

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
My question was based on theory and observation rather than on exact numbers. If you had a brain, you would know that.
No you’re generalizing and stereotyping with that question. If you had a brain you would know that attractive women can be loners it is even pretty common for them to be loners.

Ninja out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've ran into a situation where a girl had serious mental image problems and therefore thought she was ugly. Mainly because she used to be chunky but lost weight and got hot. But not really antisocial so to speak.
 

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By your logic, Black Italian, there would be no point in having this site because all advice given is based on some generalization. Yes, a hot girl can be antisocial. But I want you to give me some examples as how this could be the case. Give me a theory to counter my own.
 
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