"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is a grandpa who dates young women from poor countries "sketchy"?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
Oh Pru makes up these contributions...maybe gets her ideas from here amongst other places...I am convinced she,her accolytes, and people like them seed our threads with these crazy questions...good luck to Grandpa,more strength to his elbow...he helped create the World that Pru and her self serving cronies want to tear down...A pox on all their houses say I!
 

mangotot

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Grandpa done good. I could totally understand him taking the trip but as for young guys going to find women, I never got that.
 
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