MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is a grandpa who dates young women from poor countries "sketchy"?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
Oh Pru makes up these contributions...maybe gets her ideas from here amongst other places...I am convinced she,her accolytes, and people like them seed our threads with these crazy questions...good luck to Grandpa,more strength to his elbow...he helped create the World that Pru and her self serving cronies want to tear down...A pox on all their houses say I!
Oh Pru makes up these contributions...maybe gets her ideas from here amongst other places...I am convinced she,her accolytes, and people like them seed our threads with these crazy questions...good luck to Grandpa,more strength to his elbow...he helped create the World that Pru and her self serving cronies want to tear down...A pox on all their houses say I!