Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is a "cuddle house" just a PG-rated brothel?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just what we need, to let our women feel entitled to the point that we need to pay for mere affection. Geez.

Cuddle parties I can understand, but to pay for it? More feminist entitlement garbage.
 

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lol that ain't nothing. In Japan dudes pay to have young ladies clean their ears.

 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm not against the concept, but $60 dollars seems way too steep. A guy would really have to be desperate to fork out $60 just to cuddle. It would be like dropping $100 on a kissing booth.

I bet if you put some Abercrombie-looking dudes up, there would be chicks willing to pay some cash to cuddle with them. Not as many as vice versa of course, but there would be some.
 

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I seriously love these quirky vids you post taiyuu and really everything about Japanese culture. I stayed in the country side when I was there and didn't get much time to indulge in the weird city cultures. As I understand it, mothers do this for their kids and the guys develop a bit of a fetish with it. I wonder if the guys acting polite and weird there is why foreigners tend to have such an easy time with the girls, It certainly works that way in China. Is it still expensive? I haven't been back since 05.

Apparently, they like sh1t that comes out of their ears:


Coincidence that the song's name is 'PICK ME UP' and all the guys in the window are white guys with the letters OK NOW behind them? I think they are brainwashing/encouraging inter-racial relationships. Japan needs babies.
 
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This is a classic real world example of women exploiting men on the two big weaknesses of a man's desire for sex and companionship. You know darn good and well that any beta willing to go to one of these is going to have that tiny thought in the back of his mind that he *may* get lucky and get more than cuddling out of it. Like buying the 100 million dollar Powerball ticket. "There is always that **slight** chance".
 

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I seriously love these quirky vids you post taiyuu and really everything about Japanese culture. I stayed in the country side when I was there and didn't get much time to indulge in the weird city cultures. As I understand it, mothers do this for their kids and the guys develop a bit of a fetish with it. I wonder if the guys acting polite and weird there is why foreigners tend to have such an easy time with the girls, It certainly works that way in China. Is it still expensive? I haven't been back since 05.

Apparently, they like sh1t that comes out of their ears:


Coincidence that the song's name is 'PICK ME UP' and all the guys in the window are white guys with the letters OK NOW behind them? I think they are brainwashing/encouraging inter-racial relationships. Japan needs babies.
I would happily provide Japan with babies. I had a trip planned in a year to Japan with my ex, might do it alone now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't plan a trip, plan a lifetime.

If I was to do it over, I would have planned to hit Japan and get MARRIED. They have an excellent national health care system and the women are fairly decent too.
 

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Don't plan a trip, plan a lifetime.

If I was to do it over, I would have planned to hit Japan and get MARRIED. They have an excellent national health care system and the women are fairly decent too.
I would, I love japanese culture, not in an anime way btw haha. The problem would be getting a job over there. But damm, I can see myself breeding mixed japs and instauring a new Shogunate under my fist.
 
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