is a chick that self proclaims has dated alot a redflag?

[Ryan Adams]

ok met this new Chick the other day we had great chemistry shes super cute has her sh!t together etc etc. but she was literally telling me about like 4 of her ex bf's on the first date how they did this why they did this etc. she wasn't like talking them up she was more or less saying she has a bad dating record. like she has dated alotttt. kinda turned me off. she then texted me later that night that if I lose interest please to tell her because she is soooo used to being burned she basically sets herself up for it. are these major red flags?

 

[Ryan Adams]

yeah I kinda got that vibe. that sucks she's supppper cute

 

[derby1]

dating to these women is like a board game,ie she will act as if her last date made it to base 2..........

but youve made it to base 4...........(this could be true)

then she will contact you more and more as if she never wants to LOSE YOU

then WHACK she will ghost the **** out of you over something mundane shes figured out in her head

 

[Ryan Adams]

this is our first technical "date" Burnie known her for months and have hung out casually. yes we've had sex. before. so basically she's it worth my time

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Yeah sounds like she's been plated and ghosted a lot in her past. Probably pumped and dumped too. That's the w0manese translation, that's how I read it.

So annoying when woman pull this shït, AGAIN it's always the victim mentality so you feel bad for her.(her thoughts) When in reality it turns us off. For us much as shes dated she doesn't sound very bright with 1st date topics.

 

[Who Dares Win]

A girls that makes it clear that she dated a lot thinks that she will seems more valuable more in demand while they dont get that men and women think differently.

When she says that she dated a lot, the only hint we get is that she is not worth time or energy if she doesnt give it as earlier and she usually does.

 

[marmel75]

Just dont worry about it and keep dating other women. Literally the answer to 90% of the questions popping up lately is to not worry about it and keep dating other women.

What women say is pretty inconsequential most times

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

How old is she? I feel like this is something a woman in her mid-late 20s would say (still immature but ‘experienced’, I guess, in addition to looking for something more than just casual) rather than someone younger who likely just wants fun.

 

[Billtx49]

ok met this new Chick the other day we had great chemistry

this is our first technical "date" Burnie known her for months and have hung out casually. yes we’ve had sex. before.

Get your story straight @Ryan Adams

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Yeah I've always found it really odd. There was this cute girl who fancied me who said to me once, with a sort of slightly forlorn sigh: "There have been a lot of guys over the years. You know, quite a few."

I could understand why she told me (didn't want me to be surprised or uncomfortable when it came up, perhaps showing she is desirable) but at the same time I was thinking "Why are you telling me you've had sex with lots of dudes?" :\

I think it's mostly like when they mention all the guys they could be dating. It's too emphasise their importance and attractiveness.

Also kind of a test to see if you have the same traits they did...but could be possible she is just picky and awkward.

 

[devilkingx2]

true meaning: "something I unknowingly keep doing (or refuse to take responsibility for) botches all of my relationships and you're gonna find out soon enough"

it sounds like she's gonna be really annoying and insecure (that you'll dump her any second now) and salty (about how guys keep dumping her)

I don't think it's a huge red flag as long as it doesn't take until you're married, have kids, live together or anything of that sort to find out how things go wrong

I dated a girl who was salty about her bad dating record and how it worked out was that I discovered she had little to no interest in pleasing her boyfriend or being a good girlfriend in any way, she wants you to commit for free basically, and guys not being stupid don't take dating her very seriously if all they get is the sex they already got before they were exclusive

 

[Ryan Adams]

she's cute but not drop dead gorgeous but yea I'm gonna go with the flow. I just took her out for drinks and she criticized my driving the entire time...

 

[skinnyguy]

It’s so funny when they say “I’ve been though a ton of guys” and act like it was always the guys fault it ended

Do nasty things to her and do not have feelings for her. She’s begging to be pumped and dumped. If you treat her like trash she will let you do anything you want to her

 

[ohrein]

Reminds me of the girl I dated who dropped me out of nowhere. It's signalling issues of some sort.

 

[RangerMIke]

ok met this new Chick the other day we had great chemistry shes super cute has her sh!t together etc etc. but she was literally telling me about like 4 of her ex bf's on the first date how they did this why they did this etc. she wasn't like talking them up she was more or less saying she has a bad dating record. like she has dated alotttt. kinda turned me off. she then texted me later that night that if I lose interest please to tell her because she is soooo used to being burned she basically sets herself up for it. are these major red flags?

LOL!!!

Man have you read this wrong. When a chick does this on the first date it means she LIKES you. She is telling you what NOT to do it yo what to make her your GF, by telling you have her exes fvcked up.

I just started seeing a chick that dumped her BF a couple of months ago, she is an epic slut, complete with nude pics on Instagram, with a butt load of BFs. I think it's awesome.... we both have a lot of experience and the sex has been really good.

Many of you guys take dating WAYYYYY to serious... have fun... have sex.... stop worrying about a chicks past and only think about what she is doing for you NOW.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I took her out for drinks and she criticized my driving the entire time.... not in a playful way but serious way... I have a cdl so I know how to drive i did nothing to make her criticize my driving. she was also b!tching about something and I was offering words of encouragement and she just was not having it. like anything I would say she would be like yeah but I have to work on this myself etc etc.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I took her out for drinks and she criticized my driving the entire time.... not in a playful way but serious way... I have a cdl so I know how to drive i did nothing to make her criticize my driving. she was also b!tching about something and I was offering words of encouragement and she just was not having it. like anything I would say she would be like yeah but I have to work on this myself etc etc.

Okay so she's a dumb b1tch. That makes her very similar to millions of other females.

Now see why I'm not motivated to go on "dates."

 

[Ryan Adams]

yeah the older i get the less seriously I take 95% of females. it's ridiculous. dating is a joke nowadays it's basically try to fvck as fast as possible and afterwords try to score a new one. there not even worth my time to start a ltr there all pretty much the same

 

[Glassguy]

LOL!!!

Man have you read this wrong. When a chick does this on the first date it means she LIKES you. She is telling you what NOT to do it yo what to make her your GF, by telling you have her exes fvcked up.

I just started seeing a chick that dumped her BF a couple of months ago, she is an epic slut, complete with nude pics on Instagram, with a butt load of BFs. I think it's awesome.... we both have a lot of experience and the sex has been really good.

Many of you guys take dating WAYYYYY to serious... have fun... have sex.... stop worrying about a chicks past and only think about what she is doing for you NOW.

Once again, @RangerMIke is on the money.

She is telling you the blueprint to take her home and drill her. Women say things in 2 different ways that most men just dont understand (and leads to a lot of frustration and "mixed signals").

1.) Covertly- Study up on this. No woman, unless she is a complete utter wh0re, will tell you that she wants to fvck you (unless you have dated and seen each other a little and she has become sexually comfortable with you). They will tell you things indirectly and expect you to understand it. If you do, you're in there like swimwear. If you dont, you will get the mixed messages.

2.) Even though I don't exactly like a chick talking about exes on a date, they are still telling you what you need to hear if you pay attention. Focus on her actions and not so much what she is saying. If I am hanging out with a chick and she is telling me that she doesnt have sex until she is comfortable with someone, yet she is taking my pants off, I am not really paying attention to her words at that point. She is either covertly telling me she is comfortable with me and wants sex, or she is telling me what she wants me to hear (that she is not easy) yet SHOWING me that she wants to fvck me.

My advice is this- if you had a good time with the chick, go out with her again. Go out and have fun. Start planting some emotional seeds here and there, give/take away and push pull. If she is highly interested she should stop talking about exes like she does in a matter of another date or two. Deep down she is just selling herself as "high value" just like a guy would do through his actions (Overt vs Covert) on a date to impress the chick.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

she's cute but not drop dead gorgeous but yea I'm gonna go with the flow. I just took her out for drinks and she criticized my driving the entire time...

God, seriously? I'd probably flip out if a girl did that with me. Unless you really were driving like a lunatic