"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is a 6/10 girlfriend too much to ask of life?

latino158

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i'm 6/10 or 6.5 depending on who you ask to, so is not like im trying to date up, all i want is an ok looking girl that falls in love with me, accepts me for who i am, have long lasting relationship

is that too much to ask of life? every 6/10 girl that I like is always taken or married, even if they are 22 years old wtf

dating here is retarded, american whiteknights have elevated their women to a level completely undeserved where they have this laundry list of requirements despite them being simply average girls who feel entitled to everything, they are quick to call any man a creep and would never approach a guy

america is without a doubt the worst country for an average man to date, ur basically fuked, your only choice is too see escorts or date down, have sex with chubby or whales who are desperate

also most decent looking girls, not even 7/10 are already taken, ur only choice is find a 4/10 that falls in love with you

no wonder is the main country of forerveralones and all the other virgin dweller forums like reddit 4chan misc pua forum neckbeard etc they all for the most part Americans
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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are you dressed like a mariachi guy or something? white girls slobber all over anything not white (except indian dudes) so you might wanna step your style game up (dress like a successful latino dude with class) and get a stronger frame (f these girls that don't keep it 100). That should work fine.
 

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to answer your question: yes.

Besides, even if you find an ok looking girl that is into you, you may realise after a few dates that you do not like her personality that much, or that she is a trashy girl, or you may discover that she did some things in her life that you definetely do not approve.
Also, as you mentioned, even an HB6 has several options every month so she becomes picky. So it is kinda difficult to find a girl you like for a LTR.

It is also a pain in the ass the amount of work you have to put to pick-up chicks: go out, look good, be social, approach, talk to themm... get their number...get a flake...get mixed signals...maybe you end up having sex... and then you realise that is not the type of girl you'd like to have as your gf.
Rinse and repeat.

Sad but true lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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With such a charming, positive outlook on life I am really surprised you can't find a girlfriend.
 

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The answer to your thread post question is no, it's not too much to ask of life. The question is, if you asked God how do I get married and He were to tell you:
1. Work hard.
2. Make a lot of money.
3. Never go on another date if it's not 8/10 because that's what you DESERVE for being a good person.

Would you laugh at him? Would you go into depression? Or would you buckle down and get it done?

What are you made of? Not what hand were you dealt-what are you made of?
 

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Darth said:
The answer to your thread post question is no, it's not too much to ask of life. The question is, if you asked God how do I get married and He were to tell you:
1. Work hard.
2. Make a lot of money.
3. Never go on another date if it's not 8/10 because that's what you DESERVE for being a good person.

Would you laugh at him? Would you go into depression? Or would you buckle down and get it done?

What are you made of? Not what hand were you dealt-what are you made of?
God?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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