"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is a 6/10 girlfriend too much to ask of life?

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i'm 6/10 or 6.5 depending on who you ask to, so is not like im trying to date up, all i want is an ok looking girl that falls in love with me, accepts me for who i am, have long lasting relationship

is that too much to ask of life? every 6/10 girl that I like is always taken or married, even if they are 22 years old wtf

dating here is retarded, american whiteknights have elevated their women to a level completely undeserved where they have this laundry list of requirements despite them being simply average girls who feel entitled to everything, they are quick to call any man a creep and would never approach a guy

america is without a doubt the worst country for an average man to date, ur basically fuked, your only choice is too see escorts or date down, have sex with chubby or whales who are desperate

also most decent looking girls, not even 7/10 are already taken, ur only choice is find a 4/10 that falls in love with you

no wonder is the main country of forerveralones and all the other virgin dweller forums like reddit 4chan misc pua forum neckbeard etc they all for the most part Americans
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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are you dressed like a mariachi guy or something? white girls slobber all over anything not white (except indian dudes) so you might wanna step your style game up (dress like a successful latino dude with class) and get a stronger frame (f these girls that don't keep it 100). That should work fine.
 
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to answer your question: yes.

Besides, even if you find an ok looking girl that is into you, you may realise after a few dates that you do not like her personality that much, or that she is a trashy girl, or you may discover that she did some things in her life that you definetely do not approve.
Also, as you mentioned, even an HB6 has several options every month so she becomes picky. So it is kinda difficult to find a girl you like for a LTR.

It is also a pain in the ass the amount of work you have to put to pick-up chicks: go out, look good, be social, approach, talk to themm... get their number...get a flake...get mixed signals...maybe you end up having sex... and then you realise that is not the type of girl you'd like to have as your gf.
Rinse and repeat.

Sad but true lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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With such a charming, positive outlook on life I am really surprised you can't find a girlfriend.
 
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The answer to your thread post question is no, it's not too much to ask of life. The question is, if you asked God how do I get married and He were to tell you:
1. Work hard.
2. Make a lot of money.
3. Never go on another date if it's not 8/10 because that's what you DESERVE for being a good person.

Would you laugh at him? Would you go into depression? Or would you buckle down and get it done?

What are you made of? Not what hand were you dealt-what are you made of?
 
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Darth said:
The answer to your thread post question is no, it's not too much to ask of life. The question is, if you asked God how do I get married and He were to tell you:
1. Work hard.
2. Make a lot of money.
3. Never go on another date if it's not 8/10 because that's what you DESERVE for being a good person.

Would you laugh at him? Would you go into depression? Or would you buckle down and get it done?

What are you made of? Not what hand were you dealt-what are you made of?
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God?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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