"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is a 25 y.o. man too old for an 18 y.o. woman?

MatureDJ

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Evidently, some folks think so ...

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...relationships-elicit-such-different-reactions

Recent research has indicated that the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for impulse control, planning and organization, continues to develop until around age 25.
Let me get this straight - because a woman under 25 has not had enough time to "develop", she should be off limits for an "adult". I suppose that such young women should not be getting pregnant, thus leaving about an 8 year window to get pregnant (i.e., some women start to significantly lose fertility at age 33).

And to think, that 15 y.o. Jewish girl ended up going against her father's wishes and marrying a Russian in "Fiddler on the Roof", set in the early 20th Century! Even my grandmother got married at age 17 (to a 35 y.o.!) during the Great Depression! What barbarous times women lived until now! :moon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Malcontent

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I think that's giving too much credit. I'd say their brains fully develop around 50 years old, if ever.

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Who's "honor and innocence" is society trying to protect? A very large number of high school aged females are more sexually experienced than men of 25+ years of age.

I skimmed through much of the article as this is really a non issue which people just like to make unnecessarily complicated. A sort of systemic stupidity.
 

latinnova

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It's all about maturity level, and usually it's even hard for me to carry on a conversation with an 18 year old because they are so damned annoying. No, I wasn't hitting on 18 year olds, I had to do college projects with them when I was in school and it was almost like speaking a foreign language communicating with them... "Like totally, like I did, like what... yolo"
 

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That is funny , most girls these days have enough social/sexual experience to convert her partner to a puppy for her , I think we should protect these guys not the girls
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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