"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is a 25 y.o. man too old for an 18 y.o. woman?

MatureDJ

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Evidently, some folks think so ...

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...relationships-elicit-such-different-reactions

Recent research has indicated that the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for impulse control, planning and organization, continues to develop until around age 25.
Let me get this straight - because a woman under 25 has not had enough time to "develop", she should be off limits for an "adult". I suppose that such young women should not be getting pregnant, thus leaving about an 8 year window to get pregnant (i.e., some women start to significantly lose fertility at age 33).

And to think, that 15 y.o. Jewish girl ended up going against her father's wishes and marrying a Russian in "Fiddler on the Roof", set in the early 20th Century! Even my grandmother got married at age 17 (to a 35 y.o.!) during the Great Depression! What barbarous times women lived until now! :moon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Malcontent

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I think that's giving too much credit. I'd say their brains fully develop around 50 years old, if ever.

:crackup:
 

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Who's "honor and innocence" is society trying to protect? A very large number of high school aged females are more sexually experienced than men of 25+ years of age.

I skimmed through much of the article as this is really a non issue which people just like to make unnecessarily complicated. A sort of systemic stupidity.
 

latinnova

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It's all about maturity level, and usually it's even hard for me to carry on a conversation with an 18 year old because they are so damned annoying. No, I wasn't hitting on 18 year olds, I had to do college projects with them when I was in school and it was almost like speaking a foreign language communicating with them... "Like totally, like I did, like what... yolo"
 

evan12

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That is funny , most girls these days have enough social/sexual experience to convert her partner to a puppy for her , I think we should protect these guys not the girls
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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