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Is 2 months too long?

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Ok DJ fellows need some advise here...

Been dating a HB9 for 2 months now. Everything is really great except she won't have sex. We both have essentially dropped our other dating partners. I can play with her privates but she keeps saying its too soon when we move any further. She went through a bad break up from a LTR 5 months ago. Its getting rather frustrating since we make out / hang out but she puts the breaks on all the time noting that she really has to know someone before she sleeps with them.

Am I being unreasonable here to expect a bit more after 2 months? Anyone had similar experiences or suggestions? I'm thinking of either backing way off or considering cutting this one loose altogether.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ya I know, problem is she is sensing that it frustrating me - I don't particularly want to mess it up but at the same time don't want to end up in the friendzone.... any advise?
 
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It sounds like she isnt comfortable around you yet, or is too worried about getting hurt (unlikely, women listen to their sex drive vs their sense of reason anyday)

What has worked for me in the past with women like this is increase Kino, start holding her hands, cuddling during a movie (then slowly feeling her up - ass- tits, etc)

When she gets used to your hands being in her forbidden zones, she will eventually become comfortable to open up

Kind of like you have to let a vicious dog smell your hands, let you pet it and eventually the dog likes you, and will let you fondle its nuts

girls are the same way
 
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The more pressure she senses from you the less likely she will be to give it up and the shorter your relationship will be.

Solution:

Deny her sexual activity. It might be a bit too late now, but ideally, you have to make HER want It. If you remain nonchalant about actually having sex, while being sensual, women tend drop the panties.
 
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Is there another HB9 to take her place? No, I thought so.

Do what the other dj's posted here - quit acting like you 'need' it and have an "I don't care attitude". Some girls want to make sure that dudes don't have sex with them and then just leave....she wants you to want her and not her vagina! Assure her of this!
 
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