"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is 2 months too long?

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Ok DJ fellows need some advise here...

Been dating a HB9 for 2 months now. Everything is really great except she won't have sex. We both have essentially dropped our other dating partners. I can play with her privates but she keeps saying its too soon when we move any further. She went through a bad break up from a LTR 5 months ago. Its getting rather frustrating since we make out / hang out but she puts the breaks on all the time noting that she really has to know someone before she sleeps with them.

Am I being unreasonable here to expect a bit more after 2 months? Anyone had similar experiences or suggestions? I'm thinking of either backing way off or considering cutting this one loose altogether.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ya I know, problem is she is sensing that it frustrating me - I don't particularly want to mess it up but at the same time don't want to end up in the friendzone.... any advise?
 
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It sounds like she isnt comfortable around you yet, or is too worried about getting hurt (unlikely, women listen to their sex drive vs their sense of reason anyday)

What has worked for me in the past with women like this is increase Kino, start holding her hands, cuddling during a movie (then slowly feeling her up - ass- tits, etc)

When she gets used to your hands being in her forbidden zones, she will eventually become comfortable to open up

Kind of like you have to let a vicious dog smell your hands, let you pet it and eventually the dog likes you, and will let you fondle its nuts

girls are the same way
 
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The more pressure she senses from you the less likely she will be to give it up and the shorter your relationship will be.

Solution:

Deny her sexual activity. It might be a bit too late now, but ideally, you have to make HER want It. If you remain nonchalant about actually having sex, while being sensual, women tend drop the panties.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is there another HB9 to take her place? No, I thought so.

Do what the other dj's posted here - quit acting like you 'need' it and have an "I don't care attitude". Some girls want to make sure that dudes don't have sex with them and then just leave....she wants you to want her and not her vagina! Assure her of this!
 
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