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Debated on whether to post this or not, but whatever, I decided to just do it anyway. Kind of was inspired by @BPH thread on taking L's, and I could post tons of those, but this one is more specifically about turning an L into a W that just happened to me a few days ago.
This is kind of funny because essentially the girl started out by telling me she didn't find me attractive at all, but still ended up fvcking me.
Scenario: We go out once a month with my remote group from work. We are a small tight-knit group that's been together almost 5 years now and lives in the same general area. Sometimes lunch during the workday, sometimes after work, etc.
This time it was after work on Wednesday. We went to a place that is fairly popular that also hosts various other events and after work type things going on and it had a few of them that day in various areas.
We were seated in the main restaurant part of venue and there is this little enclosed area with a doorway but glass walls that has a bar and is one of the "group" areas but you can also go in and get drinks there yourself even if you aren't part of the group (don't ask, I find it kind of weird too).
Anyway, I saw this really cute woman that was having fun with her friends that caught my eye a few times while we were there and towards the end of dinner I looked up and noticed she was by herself at the bar after I watched her friends walked past me. So I said F it...I excused myself and went up to the bar to get a water and while I was there I struck up a short convo with her:
(paraphrased from memory, I can't remember the exact words)
Me: "You are having quite the party here, what are you guys celebrating?"
Her: "Our company xxxx just hit a major milestone and they took everyone out to celebrate!"
Me: "Oh, that's cool. So I have to be honest. Our waitress has been kind of slow getting back to refill my water but that's not the real reason I came over here."
Her: "Oh yeah? Well why did you come over here?" - I could kind of sense she knew what was coming and was giving not great vibes
Me: "I noticed you earlier with your friends having a great time and you looked like a fun person to get to know better, so I thought I'd introduce myself. I'm BITG."
Her: "Nice to meet you BITG, I'm xxxx. I have to be honest, I'm not interested. But thanks for coming to talk to me."
Me: "Ah, you have a boyfriend already"
Her: "No I'm single, I'm just not interested. You aren't my type."
Me: "Muscular and good looking isn't your type? Who knew." (Said with a smirk)
Her: "Well, I'll give you muscular"
Me: "Ah, so not good looking too? What a shame."
Her: "No....sorry."
(Looking directly into her eyes like a lion staring at it's prey)
Me: "Well, I guess it's good that I fvck like a champ then. Enjoy the rest of your night xxx." Said with a smile and I walked away slowly with my head up.
She looked literally stunned that I would say something like that, but I noticed after I left that she kept glancing at me as I was sitting at the table. I paid her no mind and thought that was the end of it. Turns out, that must have been marinating inside her brain for a while.
As everyone from my work was getting ready to leave, I was planning to stay just for a few extra minutes trying to see if there might be anyone else worth talking to in the other areas. I was still sitting at the table scoping things out when I noticed her suddenly standing next to me.
She just had this strange look in her eyes and she said "Prove it."
And I said "Prove what?"
And she said "You know what I'm talking about."
So I realized what she was talking about and I stopped asking questions and said "OK. Let's go."
She said "I live 5 minutes away, you can come with me."
So I went with her and spent the next two hours grudge fvcking her into submission.
And after she told me I was definitely right hahaha.
I asked what changed her mind and she told me that my sexual confidence was so fvcking hot that she couldn't stop thinking about it and that started making her wet while she was there and she decided she wanted to find out for herself. And that she knew I probably had a pretty nice body under the clothes to look at.
Then she told me she still doesn't find me that attractive but if I was open to be a FWB every now and then when she is in the mood and isn't in a relationship that she would be up for that. So I said OK, and we exchanged numbers.
Will I ever see her again?
No idea, but at least for one night, i fvcked a pretty good looking woman who initially rejected me, I acted completely unphased and said something so irrationally confident to her that it made her hot enough to reconsider within an hour and then ended up fvcking the sh!t out of her later that night.
I'll take the W while I can and not ask questions.
The lesson? Stop giving a fvck and just say what is on your mind when the opportunity arises (especially if you already took the L).
This is kind of funny because essentially the girl started out by telling me she didn't find me attractive at all, but still ended up fvcking me.
Scenario: We go out once a month with my remote group from work. We are a small tight-knit group that's been together almost 5 years now and lives in the same general area. Sometimes lunch during the workday, sometimes after work, etc.
This time it was after work on Wednesday. We went to a place that is fairly popular that also hosts various other events and after work type things going on and it had a few of them that day in various areas.
We were seated in the main restaurant part of venue and there is this little enclosed area with a doorway but glass walls that has a bar and is one of the "group" areas but you can also go in and get drinks there yourself even if you aren't part of the group (don't ask, I find it kind of weird too).
Anyway, I saw this really cute woman that was having fun with her friends that caught my eye a few times while we were there and towards the end of dinner I looked up and noticed she was by herself at the bar after I watched her friends walked past me. So I said F it...I excused myself and went up to the bar to get a water and while I was there I struck up a short convo with her:
(paraphrased from memory, I can't remember the exact words)
Me: "You are having quite the party here, what are you guys celebrating?"
Her: "Our company xxxx just hit a major milestone and they took everyone out to celebrate!"
Me: "Oh, that's cool. So I have to be honest. Our waitress has been kind of slow getting back to refill my water but that's not the real reason I came over here."
Her: "Oh yeah? Well why did you come over here?" - I could kind of sense she knew what was coming and was giving not great vibes
Me: "I noticed you earlier with your friends having a great time and you looked like a fun person to get to know better, so I thought I'd introduce myself. I'm BITG."
Her: "Nice to meet you BITG, I'm xxxx. I have to be honest, I'm not interested. But thanks for coming to talk to me."
Me: "Ah, you have a boyfriend already"
Her: "No I'm single, I'm just not interested. You aren't my type."
Me: "Muscular and good looking isn't your type? Who knew." (Said with a smirk)
Her: "Well, I'll give you muscular"
Me: "Ah, so not good looking too? What a shame."
Her: "No....sorry."
(Looking directly into her eyes like a lion staring at it's prey)
Me: "Well, I guess it's good that I fvck like a champ then. Enjoy the rest of your night xxx." Said with a smile and I walked away slowly with my head up.
She looked literally stunned that I would say something like that, but I noticed after I left that she kept glancing at me as I was sitting at the table. I paid her no mind and thought that was the end of it. Turns out, that must have been marinating inside her brain for a while.
As everyone from my work was getting ready to leave, I was planning to stay just for a few extra minutes trying to see if there might be anyone else worth talking to in the other areas. I was still sitting at the table scoping things out when I noticed her suddenly standing next to me.
She just had this strange look in her eyes and she said "Prove it."
And I said "Prove what?"
And she said "You know what I'm talking about."
So I realized what she was talking about and I stopped asking questions and said "OK. Let's go."
She said "I live 5 minutes away, you can come with me."
So I went with her and spent the next two hours grudge fvcking her into submission.
And after she told me I was definitely right hahaha.
I asked what changed her mind and she told me that my sexual confidence was so fvcking hot that she couldn't stop thinking about it and that started making her wet while she was there and she decided she wanted to find out for herself. And that she knew I probably had a pretty nice body under the clothes to look at.
Then she told me she still doesn't find me that attractive but if I was open to be a FWB every now and then when she is in the mood and isn't in a relationship that she would be up for that. So I said OK, and we exchanged numbers.
Will I ever see her again?
No idea, but at least for one night, i fvcked a pretty good looking woman who initially rejected me, I acted completely unphased and said something so irrationally confident to her that it made her hot enough to reconsider within an hour and then ended up fvcking the sh!t out of her later that night.
I'll take the W while I can and not ask questions.
The lesson? Stop giving a fvck and just say what is on your mind when the opportunity arises (especially if you already took the L).
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