You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They've sold, what, like 60 million? And they have, what, like 75% of the US market? I think your safe. Plus there's a warranty.bud_2005 said:I really want to get one soon so I can get a device to play it over my speakers in my car. But I hear from a lot of people that they break down often. Have any of you had problems with them?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not my experience. I had a Creative MuVo and it dumped out after a month. Then, I moved upmarket to a 30g iPod video, and it has been perfect after 5 months. It's frozen a couple times, but all you have to do is reset it, which you can read the manual and find out how to do.bud_2005 said:I really want to get one soon so I can get a device to play it over my speakers in my car. But I hear from a lot of people that they break down often. Have any of you had problems with them?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They're only $140.00 on eBay...Double_Diamonds said:Actually man, the reason Ipod has a strangel hold on the US market is because of their name: Apple. Apple has been around forever as you well know, and that is really what pushed them into the market. They had more name recognition, more capital, and the ability to stream line more then any other company.
As far as their products, I believe you can do better. I actually sell mp3 players called "ninio compactos". Same exact specs as an Ipod nano, except it also plays more formats and can include lyrics for karaoke. They have more actual storage (due to not allowing 40 languages) and longer battery life. If you, or anyone else for that matter is interested, give me a PM. I'll give em to DJs for $200 + shipping. They are the same as 2gb Ipod Nanos but last much longer. They even look the same!
This is not a good idea, it will reduce your battery life over time. Straight from Wikipedia:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lithium-ion_battery#Guidelines_for_prolonging_Li-ion_battery_lifeVincent said:Also I've left my ipod in my car tons of times because I can't bring it into work. And this is with NM heat and sun. So it gets hot in my car.
lol you just exposed him, and he tried making us all warm and fuzzy thinking he's giving fellow DJs a better dealDerek Flint said:They're only $140.00 on eBay...
http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-NINIO-COMPA...tcZphotoQQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, the auction title is:Double_Diamonds said:Derek Flint, go ahead and buy that ninio compacto. Then you'll find out that it's not actually new, as advertised; it's "Factory reconditioned". As such, it offers no warranty or return policy.