Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They've sold, what, like 60 million? And they have, what, like 75% of the US market? I think your safe. Plus there's a warranty.bud_2005 said:I really want to get one soon so I can get a device to play it over my speakers in my car. But I hear from a lot of people that they break down often. Have any of you had problems with them?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not my experience. I had a Creative MuVo and it dumped out after a month. Then, I moved upmarket to a 30g iPod video, and it has been perfect after 5 months. It's frozen a couple times, but all you have to do is reset it, which you can read the manual and find out how to do.bud_2005 said:I really want to get one soon so I can get a device to play it over my speakers in my car. But I hear from a lot of people that they break down often. Have any of you had problems with them?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
They're only $140.00 on eBay...Double_Diamonds said:Actually man, the reason Ipod has a strangel hold on the US market is because of their name: Apple. Apple has been around forever as you well know, and that is really what pushed them into the market. They had more name recognition, more capital, and the ability to stream line more then any other company.
As far as their products, I believe you can do better. I actually sell mp3 players called "ninio compactos". Same exact specs as an Ipod nano, except it also plays more formats and can include lyrics for karaoke. They have more actual storage (due to not allowing 40 languages) and longer battery life. If you, or anyone else for that matter is interested, give me a PM. I'll give em to DJs for $200 + shipping. They are the same as 2gb Ipod Nanos but last much longer. They even look the same!
This is not a good idea, it will reduce your battery life over time. Straight from Wikipedia:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lithium-ion_battery#Guidelines_for_prolonging_Li-ion_battery_lifeVincent said:Also I've left my ipod in my car tons of times because I can't bring it into work. And this is with NM heat and sun. So it gets hot in my car.
lol you just exposed him, and he tried making us all warm and fuzzy thinking he's giving fellow DJs a better dealDerek Flint said:They're only $140.00 on eBay...
http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-NINIO-COMPA...tcZphotoQQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well, the auction title is:Double_Diamonds said:Derek Flint, go ahead and buy that ninio compacto. Then you'll find out that it's not actually new, as advertised; it's "Factory reconditioned". As such, it offers no warranty or return policy.