"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Yes it is true that with young materialistic superficial females the type of phone you have affects their willingness to give you their number a cool hip iPhone, droid, hero or nexusone will get you more numbers than a razor hone from 2001..lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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so does your car. but not really the type of girl i should be after.

I met one at the bar and she kept playing with my iphone. she loves it. I drove her in my car, and one drover her in my dad's 3.2 TL, and she loved that too.

she went bananas when I cooked for her at my house a couple nights ago. Even though she's a current onitis, these things of her kinda get on my nerves.

she's really hot and fit, it hit me that she's really shallow when i was playing pool with her and she remarked "i would kill myself before i end up like that" and motioned towards a thick girl. I was in shock. I woulda totally done thickgirl (hb7.5) without blinking.
 

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I think this thread is complete nonsense!

I think girls kinda like it when a guy doesn't sellout to all the trends etc.
 

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DonGorgon said:
Yes it is true that with young materialistic superficial females the type of phone you have affects their willingness to give you their number
That's not true at all. If my phone is out, that means the chick already is in the process of giving me her number. Unless of course my opening line is, "Hey look at my phone."

a cool hip iPhone, droid, hero or nexusone will get you more numbers than a razor hone from 2001..lol
Numbers from gay men, possibly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lorekeeper said:
no no, f!d, Goran mentioned young materialistic superficial girl. they get that name cause they are young, materialistic and superficial! ;)
Fair point. In a slightly unrelated point, I find the older I'm getting, the easier it is getting younger girls...I've had three girls recently all around 19 very interested in me! and I'm 24, and making hardly no effort with them. :rockon:
 

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are you saying i should get rid of my blackberry storm
 

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Tiguere said:
are you saying i should get rid of my blackberry storm
no man keep it. smart phones are incredibly handy - I have iphone...but its more about functionality than image....fvck that sh!t! lol
 

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My iPhone went around a club while I was on vacation a while back (when they were new) with girls playing the games on it and stuff. It came back with 6-8 new contacts added, some with pictures. ;)
 

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It's not about having expensive sh!t; it's about being stylish. I've seen tons of dudes that probably have gotten most of their clothes from second hand stores be way more stylish than some douchebag that thinks he's cool because he wears collared shirts and has an iPhone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JLay87 said:
It's not about having expensive sh!t; it's about being stylish. I've seen tons of dudes that probably have gotten most of their clothes from second hand stores be way more stylish than some douchebag that thinks he's cool because he wears collared shirts and has an iPhone.
iphone is number one phone on earth.. not cause its most powerful ... its the most stylish smooth phone .. its haas set a standard of cool but is also a fantastic smart phone.
 

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MikeBrown30 said:
It's just a phone. If you think having xyz-brand phone or xyz-brand car makes you a better person, you have deeper issues.

yup deeper human issues..lol... competing for and obtaining plenty of high quality resources is a naturally occuring human instinctive behaviour as is denial..

remember also : its not how you feel about yourself that is important .. it s all about how the people you want things from feel about you...lol:up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonGorgon said:
lol.. um thats funny.. explain.
Sorry - missed this before.

They were playing CubeRunner and that stupid bubbles game, and taking each others pictures with it, and I guess it really is easy to use because a bunch of girls put their names, pictures and cell numbers in my contacts while they were playing with the phone. I suppose one probably did it and then all her friends had to copy her.
 

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DonGorgon said:
wow.. i hate folks touching my phone too much and pressing buttons... femles tend to snoop and ready my texts too much..lol
lolz. like totallyz.
 

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It's just a phone...

You keep spending that $300 a month on iPhone service, I'll put that into maintaining my car. We'll see who does better at the end of the year.

You trying to turn this site into Cosmo? You don't NEED the latest "accesory".
 

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DonGorgon said:
wow.. i hate folks touching my phone too much and pressing buttons... femles tend to snoop and ready my texts too much..lol
I don't save texts and whatever happens to be on the phone, it's not a State secret. I have a spare in any case but really it was a nice upscale place and I wasn't worried. All I need is some Windex and good as new.




Alle_Gory said:
It's just a phone...

You keep spending that $300 a month on iPhone service, I'll put that into maintaining my car.
Well really it's just $100 a month, and I don't have a home phone any more, so it's pretty minimal part of my expenses and I use it a lot in my daily life to look at my stock prices, make trades, find things, look things up and sometimes I even use it to communicate with others.

On the other hand, what sort of car requires $300 a month to maintain? Mine only needs a periodic service every 5K miles and some fuel once in a while. Sounds like either a very exotic car (which is a bad investment, no matter how much fun it is) or a real clunker.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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