"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IOIs.... help an rAFC out

Chipleader

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Alright guys, been reading a lot of stuff on this site and others. Got a mega issue in understanding what IOIs actually are and what they mean. Anyone got any simple advice? You know like what to look for when? Cheers people/
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WC2

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You should only be looking hard for IOIs if you are already good at attracting women. IOIs are helpful down the road when you need to make a decision on your actions, but for now it's much better to ASSUME that a woman is attracted to you.

Any other negative thoughts of women NOT being attracted to you will just hinder your mind from attaining your goal. Keep your thoughts positive and worry about those things when you are more experienced.
 
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